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Well go ahead and vent. We are here to listen.
1. Vent away
2. If you feel like you have no one to talk to otherwise, it might be a good idea to consider seeing a counselor to talk through things! If in person isn’t your vibe they have lots of services where you can chat, text, or talk on the phone with a professional. Would hate to see you go into a deeper spiral because you feel the need to keep things to yourself.
3. See point 1. This bowl is here for you too ❤️
Oh man, me too. I get it. You will be ok, sure, but first, vent it out as much as you need to.
Conversation Starter
i just feel like blah idk how to say it. Everyday is just the same over and over and i feel sad and lonely. Im hung up over someone and its been over for 2 yrs already. I just feel like i have no purpose
The part about not enjoying things definitely sounds like textbook depression.
I suspect you’re dealing with the reality that it’s so much harder to make friends and date in the real world, post college. Throw in the isolation of Covid-19, and it’s been exponentially harder. Reach out to people when and where you can, to help counter the isolation.
Don’t lose hope because people your age are getting hitched and knocked up. They’re wasting their 20s being all domesticated and boring. Half will end up divorced and bitter anyway. So what if you skip the starter marriage? Most of them suck.
If you’re a woman worried about a biological clock, pick an age somewhere between 30-40 at which you’d either get pregnant or adopt. Or decide that a childfree life with more money, time, sleep, and travel is your thing.
Very sorry to hear that you’re hung up on someone. I was too, at your age. Looking back, I know we wouldn’t have worked out, but at the time, I still wished it would somehow. Play Liz Phair’s song Extraordinary or stuff of that ilk until this person’s pedestal melts a bit and you remember that you kick ass in your own way. (But do consider some counseling and/or medication, too. No one should have to go through life on willpower alone.)
Rising Star
Aw youll be ok just be positive
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Pro
I'm sad because I feel like I've lost so many friends that I love but they don't feel like I'm worth the effort or something 😔
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me too. If they dont make the effort that just proves they arent worth it
If you're on this bowl guessing you're with a firm that has assistance programs available. Please reach out and talk to them about what type of help they can hook you up with. You don't have to be miserable and there is absolutely no shame in asking for help with depression-if that is indeed what you are suffering from. I wish you the best of luck.
Chief
How old are you?
Chief
Have you considered getting professional help?