I feel stuck in a hopeless relationship. I don’t trust them anymore (infidelity issues). I need courage to leave.

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Are you married, living together or just dating?
How long have you been together? Have you discussed the infidelity issues?

When one door closes, others open. Rooting for you OP! Your courage will bring you the life you deserve.
Do you have a therapist? For me, that is the rock I’m able to anchor on and has made a huge difference in my confidence and courage.
Good luck you!

Trust your guts. I was miserable in my previous relationship and it was hard to walk away. But once you do, your life is so much better. Talk to your friend and ask them for help. Send a quick message. You shouldn’t feel stuck with anything.

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