I feel trapped. I hate consulting, hard work, corporate life in general. I have so much student debt after MBA school that I have to take these high paying jobs that require a lot of effort but I just don’t think I’m built to do this forever. I don’t spend much on other things but it’s scary what happens to my finances if I make a major purchase like a house, have a kid, etc. Not sure if I’m asking for advice or rambling

likefunny
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at

Do an intense job search and be clear you prioritize WLB. The role you want is out there it’ll just take work to find

likesmart

What role? ^

You don’t have to do this forever!

Nothing is forever. Not this job. Not your debt. Not even love 🥺 cheer up! 🙌🏼

likesmartfunny

Yeab the "not even love" ouuuuchhh lol. Unfortunately true, but sheesh let them ppl believe in Santa longer plz hehe

likefunny

I would encourage you to try and pay off that debt ASAP and go do something you’ll enjoy much more. If you scrimp and save for ~2 years (get roommates, whatever) you could pay off that debt pretty fast given your income to debt has to be at least 1:1

I feel for you though, I know the job can be a grind but hopefully worth it once you exit! I’m sure there’s other options willing to pay you ~180 as well after you hit 2 years

like

You can find post mba consulting pay for better wlb. Jump on the FAANG/tech bandwagon, or biotech/pharma or financial services. Assuming you have about 1 year of post mba consulting finished, start looking. Update your linkedin and so on.

like

What types of roles at FAANG?

Take a breath. Keep it all in perspective.

If you don’t like your situation, when you’re in a calmer headspace, start to create an action plan to get out of consulting.

If you can, find an accountability buddy to help you navigate things including how you’ll manage paying down debt esp if you decide to take a lower paying, but more balanced, job. You may have to sacrifice a few years, but you have more control than it may feel like you do right now.

I found the debt free community on Instagram and YouTube really helpful when I felt at a loss.

Remember…take a deep breath every now and again. You’ll get through it.

like

Better Wallet, Dear Debt, Lo Mills, The Crafty Budgeter are good Instagram and YouTube channels for debt payoff.

Best finance show is The Money Guy Show - it’s a podcast and a YouTube channel. Very numbers driven and focused more in building wealth overall.

Take notes readers: think long and hard before jumping to get an MBA! Don’t think I ever will. Sorry OP!

like

There are also consulting roles that are a little more chilled out. Or so I have heard from old friends as I’m not in one of them.
But I think post mba consultant pay can be matched in the industry.. it’s just that industry doesn’t offer equally fast growth.

like

I'm in the same boat.

like

Interest rates are historically low! Time to consolidate and refi all that student debt! Freedom can be yours now! Sign here.

like

I already refinanced nearly 2 years ago to a private loan but was dumb and got fixed 3.96%

Damn are you me?

like

Yes. Let’s brush our teeth

like

OP, It’s ok. Trust me, most of us have gone through confused and stressful times like you. The ones that cross personal, professional and academic boundaries simultaneously are the toughest. Because you cannot take solace in any of them. This will pass. Either you will get numb to the grind or, as it happened with me, I started enjoying my profession and career. You are only one assignment or one mentor away from joy. Later, even if that changes, you have tasted the secret and that will sustain you for a while. Hang in there.

How high is your interest rate, and how many years into consulting are you?

I refinanced at 3.96% almost 2 years ago now. I only lasted 1 year in consulting and couldnt take it anymore and went to industry

Related Posts

If company only matches 6% should I only put 6% of income into 401k? Does it make sense to put more to lower tax bracket?

like

What’s the ranking of big 4 consulting firms for mba placement?

like

I had a miscarriage on Tuesday, my first. I didn’t even know I was pregnant. The Dr. was just as baffled by the timing, but here I am. My head is trying to be practical, but my hormones are raging. I feel like a stranger in my own body. How do women do this and work at the same time? I’m a freelancer, I’m so busy at work, I don’t feel comfortable talking to my coworkers about this. I’m trying to just get through the week but am really struggling.

like

My friends (especially the ones on H1b visa.. since our immigration process is tricky),how are you planning to report taxes on the coins you are HODLing or have in exchanges outside US (say binance)?

like

Trying to save up for a down payment on an investment property. Would it make sense to remove my 401K contribution for about 6 months to gain an extra $4K or is that stupid? I’m 23 and have no experience, just wanted opinions

like

Obligatory financial info post. 1) size of firm, 2) billable requirements, 3) salary, 4) bonus, 5) quality of life, 6) debt, and and 7) family/married/single. Go!

like

What % of salary does everyone invest in their 401k?

First year consultant in Chicago making $72k, currently investing 18% with a 3% company match. Wondering if this is too much...

like

Feeling a sharp tinging pain in left lower abdomen. It’s my first trimester. Have my OB visit next week, but between then and now has anyone encountered it?
FYI - I had something similar before I got pregnant. Was on vacations and planned to get it checked on return but it went away by the time I returned so never got it checked.

like

Have anyone of you given the Amazon Online Assessment for MBA summer internship 2023? If so, how long does it take for Amazon to reach out with a decision about next round post OA ?

It’s been 2 weeks and I haven’t heard back anything yet. Looking to see if it’s the same with fellow applicants. Thank you
Amazon

like

Which is a better option?
MS / MBA / PMP

Having 6+ yrs of work ex as a developer.

like

Recommendations for how to allocate 401k with Fidelity. Just switched jobs and have to move from Merrill Lynch to Fidelity

like

Hello Fishes,
Looking for some help please... wanted to knw with IIM is the best for PG in HR... I have completed my BA and MBA(distance) looking for further certifications. Thankyou for ur help!!😀
P.s I have 12yrs of experience in Recruitment

like

Hi GDS Folks,

I just got to know from my Counselor that my Lead rating is Differentiating with Promotion :)

I am moving fron Senior Associate to Supervising Associate. Any idea on the hike % i can expect?
I am currently in MBA team working for Americas Assurance client.

Thanks in advance.
Wishing All the best to everyone!!
🥂 Cheers!

like

How do you deal with overbearing mother? Mine can’t come to terms with the fact that I have my own life, travel, live far from home, etc. and always compares me to her friends whose kids call daily...

like

Hi fishes,
I'm 22 and planning to take a life insurance. I'm comparing all policies and max life seems attractive as it has good claim settlement ratio and less premiums. But there is no office near our area. My worry is that if there is a need to claim in future, it can be done all online by my nominee? Is it recommended to take policy online in any platform(like policybazaar)?
Other options I'm considering are SBI life, HDFC life which offices are available in my locality.
Please guide

like

Any advice on transitioning from big4 strategy/ops trans to MBB strategy without an MBA?

I just got approved for my second CC and it has a limit of $18,000. The credit card is with Navy Federal and it’s the cash rewards card that yields 1.75% cash back on all purchases. Can anyone give any tips or ideas as to what I can do with this? I was thinking to purchase an existing business that is already generating income. Thoughts?

like

Tips for getting back into the swing of things after paternity leave?

like

Help me with likes for dm feature. Help me with ur heart and soul

Also I am looking for job opportunities in Consulting in any Healthcare project.

I come from a healthcare and pharmaceutical background and 6 years of experience with MBA in management from Symbiosis.

Looking for opportunities and job change.
Pls help.

like

Please help him with referrals.

Correction: TC 51.3 has 15% variable.
Experience: 11 years (Marketing & Brand Manager)

Location: Bengaluru, Karnataka

#mba #marketing #branding #layoff

Post Photo

More Posts

Married 15 years - I’m no longer attracted to my spouse. Anyone been through this ONLY REPLY PLEASE - What do I do?

likefunny

Hey nagarro guys..

Do anybody remember or can share the questions asked in reactjs experience candidates in Tech round 1 and 2 ??

TIA.

like

Anyone have any insight on the type of Financial Services companies in Chicago? A lot of Fintech ?

like

Had a really great convo with a friend who still hasn’t got the vax yet, and they said it opened their mind when I was willing to discuss with them openly and hear how they feel (I got the vax early). I’m curious, if you still haven’t been vaccinated what type of conversation might change your mind?

like

Best standing desks to use at home?

like

Dear Fishes,

Could someone let me know which is better to join IBM or deloitte USI both are offering same package?
Experience: 3.10 years
Role: Automation testing with selenium and Java

like

For the past 6+ months, I've been thinking of getting an LV neverful MM for work, but I was wondering if anyone has a Valentino rockstud or the YSL shopping tote? Is the neverfull the best option for work (and carryon travel)?

like

We’re about to have our first and will be having a full time nanny. Would a nanny help with BLW, elimination communication, calming toddler tantrums, do Montessori style activities, teach manners? Trying to understand how involved nannies are.

like

Hi! Are there any members in their mid-40s or higher who have trouble changing careers because of layoffs, downsizing, age discrimination, etc.? What is some feedback you are receiving from job interviews, informational interviews, etc.? 

like

Are there any ETFs for blockchain companies?

like

Anyone know anything about OW’s CMT practice? Curious to learn about size/growth of practice, type of work, culture, etc.

like

Hello Fishes,

I have got an offer of 20 LPA from TCS. And i got a better offer from this.
Just wanted to know, if I reject the offer of TCS, will they put me in blacklist or something?
Or If i accept and not join them, will it have some consequences?

like

We have a feedback type of platform at my work where you can request feedback, and give it.

Your manager is able to see the feedback that you receive... My manager requested feedback from me...

Any one here traveled back from India on a greencard? What to expect at immigration? Thanks

like

I keep getting pink slipped, non-renewed, etc. 5 out of 7 years as a teacher. It always seems like they’re looking for excuses, but maybe I’m not cut out for this. Has anyone else had this happen?

like

I’m trying to identify which management and listening platform will work best for my team. They’ve been doing everything manually for years. I have my sights on a few but interested in hearing others preference. Thanks!

like

Anyone interested (and eligible) for any of the roles. Please DM
Company: ZS associates

Post Photo
like

My joining in cts on day after tomorrow(20-oct-2021) ,I received loi from Deloitte last week and also informed Deloitte Hr that if I receive offer letter before 20th Oct then only I can join Deloitte but till now not received OL and no response from HR also.
Shall I go with CTS or wait for D offer .

D Is offering more than Cts

like

Additional Posts in Consulting

Every room I walk into I always note possible exits in case an emergency happens (fire, earthquake, shooter etc). I note where people are and where others can enter. When I sleep in hotels I do the same where I note possible routes to escape or protect myself from a threat. Is this weird?

like

I'm looking to improve my communication skills to navigate a very political environment better (i.e. I need to be more diplomatic). Any books recommendarions are appreciated 💁🏼‍♀️

like

Corner king suite at the Ritz Carlton this week... Sure could be worse! I'll surely take these opportunities when I can get them

like

About to board a flight, see a guy with a sweatshirt that says, “I’m a consultant. To save time, let’s just assume I’m never wrong” 😂

funnylike

Best SPG/Marriott hotels in downtown NYC? Thoughts on 11 Howard?

like

I'm looking to pivot from consulting into tech. I've gotten lots of interesting from tech companies on the ops side but am much more interested in product management.

Any advice on books or courses to help make the transition? I'm struggling to land PM interviews at companies that aren't tiny startups :(

like

I can't stop thinking about work.

like

Anyone else trying to finally kick that nagging cough/cold before the break? Would hate to have any option short of “all the booze” while I’m on vacation.

likefunny

What % of salary does everyone invest in their 401k?

First year consultant in Chicago making $72k, currently investing 18% with a 3% company match. Wondering if this is too much...

like

I paid off my undergrad student loans!!! 😁😁😁 now to splurge on a very expensive gift for myself...

like

Looking for suggestions on sending a thank you gift to a friend who made introductions and helped me land a new role. The guy is 30ish. Anything is fair game. Around $1k.

like

Honestly, where does CNN find their journalists? Can’t even get the state right.

Post Photo
likefunny

Should I have more vodka?

like

What are typical backgrounds for people who go into product management at FAANG companies?

like

I feel like I’m in the twilight zone seeing all this turnover/layoffs and practitioners firm jumping

like

Sitting in an open office. Both ppl next to me are on 15+ minute phone calls (one proposal review, one talking about child care) with open phone rooms 20ft away. What's my best move here?

like

Home office furniture ideas? Asking for a 30M professor (my bf). Need standing desk, good chair, and round table with a few seats.

like

Am I missing something with this corona virus? I saw a statistic the other day that for anyone between the ages of 10 - 60, the death rate is ~0.2%...so what is the big deal? I assume just media hype?

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Send download link to your phone

OR

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy.

Messaging rates may apply

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal