I find it hard to have hookups and simultaneously look for a relationship. If I’m hooking up with people, I reject anyone who has feelings for me because I would be letting them down. If im looking for a relationship, I feel grossed out by hooking up with someone since it feels meaningless. It’s like a switch flips in me and I don’t know how people are able to do both at the same time.

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This is a normal feeling because you shouldn’t be doing both

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They’re lying to themselves

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