I find it very hard to get counter offers and feel guilty to even appear for interviews when I get 1 offer. What should I do?

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HR don't feel guilty while ghosting and Companies don't feel guilty while blatantly firing.

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Egjactly!!!!

It's a natural thing and it's good, this shows that you are a person of good heart. But remember it's a business, if you let your emotions take over you someone who has no emotion will always have benifits of trade ....

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The same happened with me I cleared 3 interviews and no one is releasing an offer letter.

2 weeks left for LWD still holding one offer.

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I too lost hope looking at the downward curve in my naukri profile in the last 30 days

Can you explain what kind of guilt?

When companies revoke offer without any guilt why are you so much concerned about it.

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Why u feel guilty?

Are companies guilty while laying off bunch of employees??.we are just resources for them

Are companies guilty while not sending offer letters by telling position is on HOLD even after clearing all rounds and just like tat taking another guy with less notice period/less pay.

And also in current market condition, one must have multiple offers as there are many chance offer many get revoked/rescinded.

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Trueee!

Don't worry be selfish at the end It's your life. Whatever is good you can select that offer if you hold any counter offer.

There is no guilt in taking multiple offers. Companies are also playing games with us when we need an offer they always give an offer to someone who is asking less CTC and if that person didn't join then they are releasing an offer to the candidate who is on hold previously.

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Finally Kalki has arrived in Kaliyuga!!

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*You must be the HR

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I had 3 offers including TCS and ITC Infotech and was wondering how to say No to TCS and ITC. TCS BGV came negative as I had not updated my latest company in my resume to them and ITC dropped me as I accepted their offer after 7 days. So chill. Companies don't care about you

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Refer me to them

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Sadly our profile is different 😁

Bhai same with me but guilty nahi feel krta. Haan agar better company se call aati hai toh appear kar skta hun

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Get ur checkup done, why the hell u feel guilty when company can select multiple ppl for same position.

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Refer me the doctor who fixes such guilt 😊

Being in a rare skill with less than 5-6 companies in my location using that technology and less than 20 overall in india. I always shifted companies after knowing all about the project and scope through known contacts. And except once where i had already given interview in two places before i got the first offer and got offers from both places, i never even attended a 2nd interview - one because choices were less, secondly i had made up my mind.

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My Naukri correspondences are sharply falling in the last 2-3 weeks

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