I flew all the way to see a person I’ve been chatting online but he seems to text less since I’m in town but we are still gonna meet. Any thoughts?

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He probably doesn’t want to use up the conversation. I do that. I think “hrm, what if I can’t think of what to say. Better limit the conversation.”

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Gays!.. you made an effort to get there - he probably already feels pressured) but you’re already in his city. So just go with a flow and be casual. Don’t make a big deal out of it 😘

Just meet and see what happens. Classic overthinking

How’d it go?

Yay!

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