I gained 50 pounds from Covid/baby, and don’t know how to dress for my new body type. What color would be appropriate to wear to a very high-end black-tie wedding in Florida this fall?

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Navy blue is my go to. Less severe than black but still slimming

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That is a great idea! Being plus-size is new for me, so I was worried black would be my only option. This is one dress that I liked and it comes in two colors (midnight blue and emerald green):

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Anything with cleavage is usually slimming! Draws attention away from your arms and stomach if those are areas you’re self-conscious about.

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I like the blue one better

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Have you checked rent the runway. There are few selections in plus size as well like the one below. You can return it after the event as well.

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Depending on how you are feeling about your arms, this is one that could look dressed up with the right accessories and won’t break the bank. But I think the one you showed is lovely.

Cos tends to do oversized fits so don’t be intimidated by it not being plus sized.

https://www.cos.com/en_usd/women/womenswear/dresses/product.halterneck-maxi-dress-blue.1107716001.html

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