I get anxious going to the office everyday. My appetite has basically been erased. I’ve lost 10 pounds sitting behind a monitor. I don’t sleep anymore. I’ve never felt so incompetent and useless. Help

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What in particular is so bad about this client situation ?

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Building trust w a client takes time.

In terms of anxiety, in a pinch see if your insurance or firm offers hotlines with professionals where you can talk through things. Longer term it can be helpful to have a more established relationship with someone so you can work through things over time

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This client is driving me insane. I don’t know how to make this any better for myself

I feel like it takes me longer than a normal person to get things done. Like I can never fully focus. Like the client doesn’t trust me to make decisions so I second guess myself all the time - even when I know I’m right. I feel alone like I have no support rom my team

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