I get extremely annoyed when I hear men (I hear this most from BM) talking about women's submission and assuming that they should operate as the authority in a relationship simply because they're men. Sounds very 50s to me. I want a partner, not an entitled insecure father figure.

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Interesting. You’d be surprised at how many women are brought up to think that way by implicit training and treatment. My wife is one of them and I hate it. Even though we’re both law grads, she tends to cede control or assume I’ll fix things without even giving it a shot. It’s a big source of my discontent in my marriage.

Just thought to give you another perspective.

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