I had posted a while back about my failing marriage and dependency on marijuana. Wanted to give you an update: joined MA, Seeing a psych and in marriage counseling. Maybe there is hope

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What’s MA? Also, good for you, continue the good fight!


Good luck OP! Keep fighting the good fight!


Thank you fish fam


Good for you! Thanks for the update. Keep us posted.

Good luck OP. Can you share that post please? Looking to learn more from others experiences



Rooting for you OP, much love and props to you for being courageous and doing the right thing


Good luck OP. Hope everything works out for the best

Well done. Keep going.

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