I hate dating, but I want to fall in love and get married and have a family.

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Im happier to see this post that someone wants to get married than the “look at me I can be a thot” posts


A happy marriage is a lie


Happy wife happy life is true.

Same! I can’t stand being asked out on dates either, haha.


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All about that efficiency
It’s honestly a waste of time dating for too long once you’ve have a couple failed long term relationships


I feel you. I've had a 3.5 year relationship followed by a 4.5 year relationship. Feels like such a waste of time now. And dating feels exhausting. At the same time I can't imagine marrying someone I haven't dated long term..

My friend - then keep marching and dating! It does take decent amount of work to get to the spot you are hoping to get to!

I oddly agree with you. Dating is wack. The only good part about it is the sex 😂

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