I have a boss from hell. She’s the GM of my hotel and she is a mean girl that never grew out of highschool. She loves gossip. She will trash talk her employees with other employees and once her toxic garbage starts to leak amongst us peons she will send a group text telling us all to stop spreading rumors and to stop being bullies like she isn’t the mean kid with a magnifying glass torturing ants for no reason. I want to stand up but I’ve seen her retaliate on people who have tried to. Help.

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I recommend you to collect evidence of their mismanagement, hotels use to do staff reviews from time to time and also allow you to make a review of someone, at that time when you already have the evidence you attack this person in the review, a team or human resources person will call you and there you can show your evidence of the toxic environment that this person does at work.

It's a shame that a person like that doesn't let you enjoy your work, although we know that hotel work is very demanding, it has its good things. Now if there is no one you can turn to show what is happening, go look for another job option, it is not fair that you are going through that work environment.

I had a manager like this once when I worked in a warehouse. 99% of the drama could be traced back to her, though she had a talent at creating drama between people and then stepping back to watch it unfold. It took a lot of people going to the owner over time for them to see the problem and fire her. The atmosphere was so different after that!

Do you have written proof of her abuse? This sounds definitely like a boss from hell, it's like being back in high school and who would want to work like that? If you don't have proof of her abuse, start documenting it, so when you do stand up and she retaliates against her, you can legally sue her (of course that's only if it comes to that).

How many people work with you? Perhaps you could all get together and start something like a union? Because if she's bothering you, I'm sure she's bothering everyone with her attitude.

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