I have a crush on a guy who’s in a long distance relationship of 3 years.. what would you do?

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If he’s willing to cheat on his SO with you. He’ll do the same to you.

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Agreed. Which is why it’s a good idea to have him break up with his girlfriend first

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Blow him.

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Solid advice

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You respect it until if/when it ends. Next question.

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As a F, I get terrified when I see a post like this!!

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Maybe he needs a friend. His SO is virtual and he may not have many other friends. Why make a man lonely out of ego (not saying you are)

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Respect his relationship.

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Nothing. He’s in a relationship. The fact it’s long distance makes no difference.

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🍿🍿🍿

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There are so many guys in the world. This one is in relationship. You will find your person.

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Move on.

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Thanks for all the replies. Follow up question -
He keeps inviting me to do things with him one on one. I should probably say no then, right? Because I wouldn’t be comfortable if I had a boyfriend who keeps inviting a single girl to hang with him alone

All are helpful responses. However, IBM is spot on.
OP, take care of yourself❤️

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