I have a direct report I’ve managed for years who has become cold and acts like they hate me. I go out of my way to celebrate & support this employee. Need advice for best approach in this situation.

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Do you need to keep managing them? If it’s been years, it’s probably time for them to learn from someone new. Have you discussed new opportunities with them?

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