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Hello, I am working in HCL Technologiesas L1 resource my CWL is nagpur but I want to change my working location . It was changed a few months back but they have referred back to nagpur again saying because of some policies so I asked for a project change thought it may be useful for location change, it's been 23 months in my current project I asked for release but my sdm is not willing to release. I cannot travel back to Nagpur vijaywada is my nearest location. Please suggest how I can proceed.
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A big day for equality. Hopefully this will lead to more men feeling comfortable enough to share their stories of abuse.
And further down the line, hopefully this will be the first step towards the removal of this carefully constructed narrative by feminist groups that domestic abuse is a gendered issue.
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It sounds like you guys have very different visions of what you want your future to be and it definitely doesn't sound like you guys are ready to get married yet.
You may become bitter if she decides to stop working and you have to be solely responsible for financially supporting her and the family. She may become bitter if she has to keep working though. You guys are very young, no need to rush.
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If you guys disagree on the end goal then sheās probably not the one. Not trying to burst your bubble, but agreeing on what you want long term is basically everything. Respect and having mutual long term interest/goals is what keeps people together.
I think missing the single life, traveling, freedom, is all natural. Itās your 20s, you want to explore life as an adult. I will say that the right person should knock your socks off and make you feel like you want to do all those things with them, not on your own. If you feel like getting married with limit you, donāt do it. Go do those things. Advocate for your adventures and growth. Donāt miss out on opportunities that literally come once in a lifetime.
I will also say, you are 24. You are young. You have time to figure these things out. Donāt rush to marry because it seems like itās time. Do it because you love them and itās the next step you want to take, not for pressure or because itās supposed to be time.
Good advice
Whatās going to happen is the two of you will compromise.....and sheāll get exactly what she wants
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I take it this happened to you and you resent it?
How do you expect people to give advice with such little context. Boobs?
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Iāll take your gf off your hands for you
Meh half of the women I went to (a very fancy) business school with have stopped working or will stop working. Those who still work, including myself, sometimes ponder what it is like not to work and I donāt even have children yet!
Point is, womenās priorities will change whether she tells you upfront or not. āPower coupleā is easier said than done.