I have a friend who proposed me , we spoke as well. I know he has a hereditary condition. I think I have started to like that friend. Not at all worried about that but family is worried about that hereditary condition. What should I do ? Friend is ready to talk to my parents as well.

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Why do you keep referring to them as a friend? Don’t y’all want to date first before getting married?

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Have them talk to your family. Ultimately it's your decision

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