I have a kindergarten crush on a fish in the newest singles bowl, which is strange because I don’t even know what he looks like, but I’m so awkward around men I start to have crushes on that I feel like he probably thinks I’m not into him back

(Shout out to the team who runs it, and this bowl! Great collaboration among fish bowls for sure!)

How long after your last break up did it take you to sleep with someone else?

Are the standards for what makes a black man or woman an attractive person for a potential relationship or marriage material the same for white men or women? Do we judge all 4 groups (black man, black woman, white man, white woman) the same?

How do you interpret a guy watching all of your insta stories basically within 30 mins of posting them, and ‘liking’ them frequently. For example, I was at a wedding last weekend and posting photos til like 5 am- he watched every single one almost instantly

Any male 🐠 in Miami this weekend and want to hang out Fri night (check out the bar/club scene in South Beach)? Am traveling there this week and staying until Sat afternoon. 30 yo M here.

Men, do you consider sexually inexperienced women as a turnoff?

28M NYC (Manhattan) here. Pandemic partner (female) needed!
Looking for someone who:
- enjoys long walks and raccoon watching
- has an active-ish lifestyle
- is good about distancing / making a solid ass bubble
DM away!

Does anyone know of a good dating app? I have tried using Hinge, which I thought is designed for people to date and not to hook-up. However, everyone I chatted with is asking for pics like they would on Grindr…is that just our culture?

I'm single and well paid. I'm fit and good looking. I'm fun to hang out with. I'm a good listener. That's it. I'm happy being single. I'm not looking to date anyone or looking for a long term relationship. I have amazing friends, amazing family and I go on casual dates once in a while. Extremely happy with my life and don't want to change anything about it.

Any M up for a chat?

Is my bar too high in this day and age if I want guys to at least ask me out in person instead of reaching out on social media having never met me in person before? I just like when you have the guts to approach me in person instead of hiding behind a keyboard, or start with wanting to get to know me and not coming on too strong if we've never met.

I empathize that it's more comfortable for us to hide behind our keyboards, but I also like a guy with guts and conviction.

Ok so breaking down and going to order a couple of sex toys. Any faves / recommendations? His or hers fair game.

34 M NYC - Anyone down for a drink in NYC?

Unpopular opinion:
Don't understand what people are loving about Indian Matchmaking
I do not find it hilarious and do not find Nadia adorable 🙄

Any single female from Kolkata ?

Stay home to watch Mulan...then I get the question: is Li Shang or Honghui gay since they are attracted to Mulan when she covers herself as a man?

Any F in Minnesota?

Mid 40sF, recently separated, seeking intelligent convo. For the love of god, do not be dishonest. I don’t even care if you’re married and lonely. I get that. Looking for same age range.

Looking for a PUBG Mobile duo buddy. Hit me up!

33f, tall looking for like minded Christian male

Is 36 LPA too high at supervising associate level in EY?
Yoe is 9.

Anyone think the PERM processing time will fasten? I’d imagine with Covid there would have been less filing...

What do you do when you meet someone who absolutely loves some bollywood movie you find cringe. Help 😒

What’s something you always make sure to accomplish your first week of a new job?

Just had my egg retrieval today. Doctor said they got 8 eggs. Any success stories with that number? I know it's a little low...

Hi everyone ,

I hope you are well.
I currently live in London, United Kingdom, but I’m thinking of moving to the US in January.
I haven’t been to the US before, so I don’t know much. I also intend to work whilst I’m there :).
How does the US visa work ? Where in the US would you recommend to a black woman that’s scared of guns ?
Looking forward to hearing back xx.
Thank you :).

🙏🙏🙏🙏 for some likes so I can DM people…thank youuu

Hi Fishes,
I need 15 likes to enable DM.
Thanks in advance!

Do Data Engineers generally get much lesser CTC than Data Scientists and Software Developers at Top Product Based companies?

I am only getting 18.5 LPA (including RSUs) at a Top Product Based Company for 4 YOE, whereas many of my peers are getting 24-30 LPA for my experience level at my company. (some even lesser than me)

People are getting much more than me in Devops and Software Development - Both Frontend and backend.

Anyone familiar with the tech consulting onboarding process? Joining the team in a few weeks

I am an associate at a small firm and was licensed last fall. I clerked at this firm through law school, so I knew most of the partners before starting as an attorney full time, except some of the new ones we have acquired since. I have several cases that I am the only responsible attorney on and quite frankly, feel like I have no clue what I’m doing half the time. I ask questions, but feel like I’m being a nuisance if I ask too many. I guess I didn’t expect to be solely (cont. in comments)

How long is it appropriate to sit on an offer from a firm before giving an answer. This firm made me an offer sooner than I expected, and I’m trying to check their references (talk to anyone I know who knows anyone that has worked there) and now they’re giving my recruiter pasig aggressive notes about how long I’m taking and saying they’ve been “very patient”….it’s been a week.

Fishes, can you advise what the salary band is for Senior Consultant in Real Estate Consulting @ Deloitte? Graduate Degree with 8+ years experience. Thx!

Hi All, Prior to my final round I received a mail from KPMG HR requesting my last 3 months pay slips and Aadhar, PAN, graduation degree and filled Candidate Application Form. After that I gave my final round 2 days back i.e on Friday & it went really well. Later I didn't receive any communication on whether i am selected or not. Is it a good sign?

Hey all,

My profile at Accenture - New Associate Digital Marketing has been shortlisted 2/3 months ago but still haven't received any call/mail from HR any inputs?

What is the process at Accenture?
#hiringprocess #accenture

Sobriety is the most powerful weapon.

My SO stepping into bed just after a shower is the biggest turn-off, no more effective mood killer than a body that smells like roses and lavender...

Who tf decided to call them jet skis instead of boatercycles?

I have my Masters in HR and my PHR but I don't think HR is for me, or I may not have the confidence for this role. I want to quit my job and live off my savings which can hold me over about 6 months, but then what??

How long after your last break up did it take you to sleep with someone else?

Best way to take a very last minute day off of work?

Reading how minimal charges were against Michigan officials in the Flint water crisis reaffirmed to me how unfair life is and people with power really can get away with anything. It’s both motivating and deflating me at the same time.

The only reason I clean my house is so that other people don’t see how I really live

I think I have the perfect plan to get rid of my dark circles. Just wait for it to encircle my entire face.

Bf dumped me citing I didn’t invite him to my family home over the many years we’ve dated. I’ve explained to him why many times - my parents are somewhat hoarder like and my bf is v critical and I wanted to avoid any confrontation in that setting. He’s met my parents a handful of times in outdoor settings but even that’s been limited due to my mothers health issues that prevent her from traveling much. He is very close with my siblings.I get fam matters but this felt like a cop out reason to me

Alright im 5'11 but why are there so many people 6'0 that are shorter than me?

Jiggly puff.. jiggguuulllyy puffff

For those who settled for someone who wasn’t the one, why did you do it?

I recently met my close friend’s boyfriend and he made a good impression…until he tackled me. Now I don’t know how to raise it with my friend. My friend and I live in different parts of the country so I was looking forward to both of them visiting me since it seems like her happiest relationship. We were enjoying a picnic in the park by the lake and I don’t even know why but he started saying he wanted to rassle me (or however wrestling would be spelled in a fake accent) but (Cont…)

I peeled the oil change sticker from my window because I was embarrassed for the guys at the shop to see that I had gone 2.5 years in between oil changes. (Didn’t drive it very much due to working remotely)

I slept at 9pm, got up at 12:45am and worked until 4:45am 😮‍💨 🤣 💤