How do you handle being jealous of stay at home moms? My husbands best friends wife just had a baby and is a stay at home mom & I get so jealous & start feeling like I’m missing out by working
Steven Yeun starred in a movie titled Minari - about Korean American first generation immigrants (and the second generation child) settling in rural America. Not sure if it is released yet but the preview seemed very interesting. I thought it was more interesting because they did not choose the coastal areas for this movie.
So my wife basically said she doesn’t want to have sex anymore. Don’t want to do anything about it. After couple kids, doesn’t feel it anymore. Also said it wasn’t anything I did and there’s no one else. I understand women’s body changes after child birth but can’t help thinking it’s gonna suck being in a sexless marriage. We’re still attractive and haven’t turned into couch potatoes…yet Happy Thanksgiving!
Looking for a rocking chair for my baby’s nursery. Any recommendations on a comfortable one that is decent looking?
Has anyone changed employers in the same year as taking parental leave? Planning to actively look elsewhere, starting in June. However, we are expecting our first child in December.
I feel like every time I have to explicitly let ppl know that 4 hours of my day are spent in pumping. I also have to go home and take care of my baby in the evenings. A day or 2 is fine - but (contd.)
Honest thoughts on baby boy name being Denver? I like unique names but can’t decide if I love it or hate it.
Hi moms. I’m 8 weeks pregnant. My husband told his parents about it today. They reacted in the worst possible way! They asked what I was thinking and that he should talk to me about getting the baby aborted!! This baby wasn’t unplanned in any way. We really wanted a second child and glad that it happened without needing any interventions. I’m really mad right now! And just their words are making me cry! I expect 0 help from them to start with. But don’t need this negativity right now.
Any one been to "Puerto Vallarta" for a family vacation? Looking into destinations for traveling with wife and a one year old baby next month..
Any single moms who raised boys? My first kid, I grew up as an only child with no brother, and really clueless as to how to raise a boy. I’d have an easier time with a girl since I kinda know how
For those who have taken parental leave, do you uninstall your work chat app from your phone while you’re away? What about email? Do you delete the account from your email app?
Nanny or daycare? Also, what age do they typically start child care? First time parent to be and no clue where to start - heard that waitlists are long in Toronto.
First time mom-to-be here, just found out I’m pregnant. Feels like there are a thousand things to do/think about and I know we have time, but not sure how to prioritize. What did you do first, and/or what do you wish you’d done in your early stages of pregnancy to prepare? Feeling pretty good at the moment (fingers crossed that keeps up!) so have the energy to get things done.
My sister just gave birth. Watching her throughout this journey is giving me serious second thoughts about getting pregnant - various pain, morning sickness, changing body, occasional embarrassment, etc. Still want children, but seriously considering other options
How much stock do you put on benefits? I have two offers with stark differences in benefits. Job 1: role I want, but benefit sucks (2 weeks paternity leave, 20% coinsurance). Job 2: role is okay but higher level and great benefits (16 weeks paternity, 0% coinsurance, 5 more days of vacation). Total comp is the same though. I wonder if I should just focus on role but Job 2 is a large company, so I can move around after 2-3 years I’d expect. Thoughts?
Supply chain Folks. I have a friend who is looking to get back to work after maternity hiatus of a few years. She was a buyer. She wants to pursue CSCP. Will it help her chances of landing a job? Tks!
I don't think I'll ever be having a family with kids but totally jealous of parental leave/days off. Is that normal?
Senior 3, 1 year FDD experience, Boston. What can I expect for Big 4 salary and sign on bonus?
Mistakes are the learned lessons to a better career. But every time I have made a mistake, it seems like it is the end of the world. I want to hear stories...of a time where you made a mistake and your superiors did not freak out, but used it as a lesson for you. does that exist anywhere?
For those of us concerned about managing their eye health, what do you do in terms of setting up your computer screen/applications to reduce digital eye strain?
Hey fishies! First day here - excited. Looking to hook a Content / Digital / Social Strategy role. Background in social and digital marketing (all facets). Appreciate any bites! 🦈
What will be the range of salary (Fixed) for Strategy consulting managers for a person from IIM 2012 pass out. I read on some threads in the bowl regarding mid year hikes. The data point will be helpful in salary negotiations. Deloitte
Thinking about opening a Roth IRA. Recommendations for where to open one (considering fees, etc.)? I might also roll my 401(k) over if I switch jobs and would like to use the same account for both.
I am looking for a job change. Is there any openings in Accenture/IBM/HCL/etc... YOE - 2.5 yrs Skills - C,C++,UNIX, SQL, Shell scripting.
Hi fishers, I have the following offers - 1) Accenture India - 7.01 LPA (5.8 fixed + 21 % variable) 2) Tricentis India- 9.35 LPA (8.5 fixed + 10% variable) 3) Deloitte USI (Analyst)- 9.6 LPA (8.72 fixed + 10% variable) + 2 lacs joining bonus + 1 lac retention bonus YOE - 2.83 Current CTC - 4.67 LPA Skill - Tosca Automation Can you please suggest which company to choose and how to decline other offers which are already accepted by me? DOJ : 13th dec Deloitte USI Accenture India
Started a new job but re-evaluating and want opinions. $140k base, $170k TC in SF. 5 YOE with masters (non MBA) and CPA. Prior exp in big 4 advisory. Currently corp strategy at F150 with max 45 hour weeks. Did I lowball myself..?
Special Education teachers and General Education teachers should work as a team together to help students mainstreaming, to be successful in the classroom.
My wife is giving birth in a few months to our first child. Should I take the full 16 weeks? Four months seems like an extremely long time. What about utilization and bonus? Getting replaced in projects and initiatives?
It makes sense.. but wasn’t the top things which came to mind earlier as beneficiaries of COVID. What have you bought lately? https://www.reuters.com/article/us-health-coronavirus-colombia-sex/sex-toy-sales-take-off-amid-colombias-coronavirus-quarantine-idUSKCN21W0U0
Got a 44 V / 44 Q on a recent GMAT practice exam. I was a finance major at a reputable state school and have mostly A’s (and a few B’s) in my quant heavy courses. If I score similarly on the real exam, is the high V enough to offset the lower Q? Applying to T10. I’m a white female if it matters and am trying do either consulting or tech (i.e. nothing super quant intensive).
Can anyone please share insights from their experience or understanding of differences in EY-Parthenon (esp. growth opportunities e.g., promotion criteria, and work culture) in the US (East) and UK (London) office? Given a choice at the Manager level, where would you prefer to work and why? Thanks in advance!
For the past month, while I'm booked for 45 hrs, I'm only getting work of around 2-3 hrs from the onshore. Should I raise this issue and if yes, to whom? (It's my 5th month at gds)
EPAM vs Google PSO. Thoughts? L5 Consultant role in PSO. Full consulting background. 14y yoe
Hi all, Deloitte support services as manager (28 fixed + 15 variable) or EY GDS as associate project manager(28lpa + 10% variable) Which will be better choice for 12+ years .net profile ?
Any possibility of transferring from tax information reporting to advisory services? What are my other exit opportunities?
Anyone have insight into DLA piper’s NYC litigation group? Insight into WLB and general culture would be great. Would be joining as a junior.
Job offer in San Diego. Coming from DC as a 25 year old. Suggestions on neighborhoods? Working in Pt Loma. Also, any thoughts on what life there is like? Type of people to expect, cost of living, etc
New to Fishbowl?
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.