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I have always had high sex drive but due to circumstances I had it suppressed for two years. Now I am back in the dating game and can’t stop sleeping around with diff guys(not trying to brag).CONTD

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Is it something you could feed with... self service? Or do you need a partner? Nothing wrong with sleeping around, so long as you’re safe, consenting, and not hurting anyone, but definitely double underline on the safe bit! If you’re trying to cut back on that, there are some great personal pleasure devices out there!

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I recommend the Lelo self service device.

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I read this study about sex glue and how when you orgasm your brain creates synapses to bond your senses to what’s around you. Sleeping around and masturbating makes you grow a stronger and stronger desire for variety. Which means when you do want a monogamous relationship, it’ll be either unsatisfying or a less-powerful bonding agent.

So I wouldn’t say there’s no harm in sleeping around...

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I guess my first question is why do you feel like you need to control your urges? If you’re being safe, I don’t see any reason to not have fun while you’re young and single

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Girl, do you if you enjoy it and have hot people to do it with! Just be safe ❤️

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Unless it interferes with your life in a negative way, go get it girl! There was this satire article about an abstinent couple that eat raw potatoes and spray their face with water (I'll find the link later it's hilarious). Don't recommend that approach though!

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Lmao I need to go buy a raw potato.

Depending on the state you live, try to pleasure yourself while high (weed). It’s incredible how intense orgasms can get 😂
That could ease your urges.

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Moving to Colorado next year, filing this away.

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I think you should pause and ask yourself - why am I doing it? Is it the thrill, the chase? Lack of attention? Anything else? Having regular sex is absolutely natural and healthy but is it just pure sex or you are missing something more? If just sex, get a toy and be safe. Don’t be someone’s else toy...Or start running to get some hype... Also, nobody is here to judge but are you “cheating on yourself”? Also, sounds like you don’t connect with any of these guys at the emotional level? Again, not judging, perhaps you “enjoy it” this way... “no strings attached”... just helping to find the real cause... it feels great to be wanted and life is too short but... are you really happy doing what you are doing? Or is it an escape? are you running away or not ready for deeper attachment and commitment? At the end of the day, do what you want, just be safe and be realistic about potential consequences. Also, once you have THE MAN in your life - usually they are not thrilled about active past and possessive (in a good way)... the more manly he is, the less he shares... (most of the time, just based on my own life experience). And if you were happy with one man, you would be “settled”...

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I think you are missing the point. It is ok - you may understand one day and you are totally entitled to your own opinion (not misinterpretation of what I meant or how it could come across given your perception and personal experience). Nothing gross for sure.

Girl! Gimme some of that drive I say!

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^^ help. I have 0 interest, mostly because all of the men who approach me are desperate creeps. Why is it so hard being a smart and confident woman? It seems as if all the good ones are already taken.

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Do you feel like its taking a toll on other aspects of your life? Do you find you're using sex to satisfy unexplored emotional needs?

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Question... all those saying, go girl have fun if you’re protected, would you give the same advice if she was YOUR daughter? Not judging. Just curious

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I don’t have a daughter, but it was the same advice I gave my little sister when she got out of a relationship at 22.... so yes?

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If you manage to stay safe and are happy - why stop yourself? No need to take other people's sexual "morale" into account. It's your life, have fun

(Unless you judge others for having a higher count. Then by all means stop.)

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I don’t know how to control my urges and get some kind of high out of it. Any suggestions to avoid doing this?

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When I got 2 STDS, skin fungal around my crotch area and mono, that was enough for me to call quits on hooking up. Most people don’t show signs of an STD. Love yourself and talk to a therapist. There’s a void you might be trying to fill. Take care of yourself love. We’re all here to support you.

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Masturbate?

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Why stop? Aren’t you having fun? Just use protection and you’re good

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As long as you're being safe, who cares? Get it while the gettin's good!

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