I have an extremely difficult colleague that I cannot work with. He answers my questions with completely tangential information and i have to repeat questions multiple times before he answers them, easily the poorest communicator I have ever worked with.

The week he took as PTO was the best week of my career at Amazon and I was far more productive.

I don't think I can continue working here if I am working with him on a daily basis, but I don't want to be seen as a poor team player. Any advice?

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Is there any way you can approach your boss about your concern?

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Can you phrase it then from that perspective? That it’s not that you dislike him (even if that’s a lie) or that he is a bad employee, but that you find that you don’t tend to work well together and you think it may be more productive if you didn’t work together. Phrasing it from a productivity standpoint might be a good tactic with your boss.

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Try to talk to your manager about it. Best if your coworker has the same manager; this certainly seems like an opportunity for PD. You may also learn how to communicate better with this person, maybe your style doesn’t work well with them.

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That's a difficult one. Can you apply to go to another team internally and frame it as wanting to move to it for growth, expanding your skills and knowledge, etc?

Are you the only one who finds him like this or others feel the same way?

If it’s only you, then you can check how others are dealing with him.

If it’s not just you, then he might need help communicating. Why do you think he answers tangentially? Does he not understand the question? Have you tried different modes of communication as well? - verbal, written, visual, etc?

I don't really want to he the office gossip

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