I have been given a sick note by my doctor to get my hours altered and be on light duty because I’m having crazy pregnancy insomnia. Since I’m not ready to talk about my pregnancy it just says Stress anxiety and tiredness. I’m just really worried this will reflect badly on me but I have become so inefficient at work. What do you think?

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What is your alternative? If you continue and remain inefficient that will reflect badly too. Make your well being your priority.

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Are you at the point of HR being involved ? Or is this a discussion between you and your manager ?

If HR is involved you might be better off disclosing the pregnancy because it gives you some legal protections.

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Yes I’ve had to send it to HR and my counselling manager is aware too

You need to be honest about why you're leaving with HR and your counselor

I’m not leaving I’m getting my time flexed

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It's good you're asking for the accommodations you need. Naps are your friend. You'll be OK. Pregnancy doesn't last forever! You have a WHOLE long career ahead of you 🎉

Thank you soo much! I needed to hear this x

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