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I have been in a relationship for past 5 years. But i cant marry her due to some reasons and she also knows that. We decided to mutually break up but after 2 months we met again and now it has got complicated. We know each other so well and even after breaking up we talk 1-2hrs atleast daily. Now we are kind of FWB. I love her very much and dont wanna hurt her in any way. I dont know if i am doing this FWB just for the benefits but i really have strong feelings for her. Need your opinions guys

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OP: tum ek number ke ghunchu ho, ab usse shadi na karr ke amar ho jaoge na tum?

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Us pandit ko patri dobara check krne bol 2000 uski jeb me daalke, thoda mangal kam ho jaega , fir 10 k daal ke maa baba ke paas leke jana...... Compatibility thheek hai to krle bhai , taare upar se baithke ye nhi btaenge ki jiske sath vo match kra rhe hain vo tujhe 2 saal baad divorce degi ya court me ghaseetegi.....

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I like your idea, a second consultation couldn't hurt anyone.

The reason you mentioned in comment is good enough to break a 5 year relationship? It feels like you're finding reasons to not continue this relationship. I'm not sure some 21st century guy would think of breaking a relationship because of this. Do a favour and leave her for good. She would be better off with someone who would value her more than you.

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I don't know why this comment hurt me, but i guess you are right and this fact check was required.

This was the case with me too a few years ago... But I dint use her after I made up my mind that we are gonna seperate at some time... So that also reduced the motivation to be in a relationship and we lastly broke up.

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Thanks mate for the suggestions. This helped.

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Grow some balls. Ye sab ho sakta hai toh shaadi bhi ho hi sakti hai. Benefits millte rahenge, lekin har koi baat karne layak nahi hota.

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I agree har kisi ke sath compatibility nahi hoti itni, but i am confused ki should we stop talking altogether because the regular convos are not making the move on process any easier.

I just want to say, soulmates are difficult to find. What if you were born in a different country and did not know anything about this kundli stuff. People can't be with their soulmates for very difficult reasons like disease, caste, social status. To be very honest many of them even fight these very extreme conditions. In your case it's just a stupid astrology thing. The astrology things don't mean anything trust me. I have spent tons of money on verifying kundli from astrologers who have given completely inaccurate information. To be very honest, it's just a money earning industry, and you my friend are losing out on love because of this. Please call her now and stop this disaster!!

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Not bro rather sis. Haha

Make up your mind on what you want

Why can’t you marry her?

Are ped se shadi karlo pehele.. Mangal dosh nullify ho jata hai

Hey OP, if this is seriously because of Mangal Dosh, don’t do this. Go and marry. Relationships are not joke.

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