I have been notified that it’s strange to invite your ex’s sister to your wedding 🪦

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We got married at my exs family’s summer home sooo 😂🤷‍♀️

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We stan a fiscally responsible, emotionally secure king/queen 👏👏👏

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Is it though? Shows maturity and the ability to keep relationships through change!

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100% okay IMO if you enjoy her company outside of your ex. However if it irks your future spouse, not sure it’s the battle I’d choose to fight.

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My fiancé gives me plentiful side eye and jokes at my expense, but pretty much where I am. Haven’t spoken to that ex since we split up ten years ago, but got along really well with her younger sister who runs in the same professional world as I do. The two of us catch up regularly, but I’m still not at all interested in talking to my ex herself, lol

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I mean... It's not your ex so idk what the issue is?

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I have lunch with my husband's ex sometimes. She's weird but in a good way and we have so much in common too. We cool, no hate, her husband's a much better fit than my husband for her. Life's too short to not be secure in your relationships.

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I love this!

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You people are red flags. Yes it’s strange

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Why? It's their ex's sister, not their ex...? I'm friends with my ex's old roommate. Is that weird to you too...?

This situation has a lot of variables. If you’ve known your ex’s sister for many, many years (decades) and have maintained an active platonic relationship over such time, through and including to now, wouldn’t your current partner know this? And, if so, then I don’t see why it would be weird.


My current BF is still close with his ex-wife’s family (mom, dad, step-dad, and her brothers - although they have a child together). I wouldn’t be weirded out if my BF invited some or all of them to his wedding. His ex-wife? Now, that’s a hard pass. No way she’s coming to our wedding. Ever. Nope.

Lol notified by your fiancé?

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