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I have got a simple advice to select the bride in arrange marriage. Enquire about her mother a lot, because she is the one going to run your wife remotely. If she is arrogant run away!! Any other ideas to select bride and bride groom??

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What's the point of being educated and well settled enough to think about marriage and still let your mother remotely run everything in your life?
Please watch less hindi serials.
Normal practical mature girls don't have time for all this.
She will behave as per your inclusivity in the family.
If u will treat her like an outsider , then u will receive the same right.

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I have few trustable friends in office, all are feeling the same, even though we don't like their interference in our family those guys involve themselves into our financial decisions and try their best politics. If you shout they will shout back but nothing will change. I am having a bad life man.

I agree normal mature girl won't listen, what about immature arrogant grown???

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Bhai infosys

Kitna hi padh lo
Trimble wale bhaisahab nae ek dum sahi kahan

Biwi ki maa shaadi shuda zindagi bach bhi sakti hain
Aur saath mae maa behen bhi kar sakti hain


Shaadi kae saath vachan, jisnae bhi nibhayae
Wo sukhi raha

Usmae ek vachan ka har din dhajji udta hain
Aur wo hain
Ki
Sasuraal ki baatein maayka mae nahi batanae ka

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This is exactly the same thing my parents have said. If the bride's mother has good behaviour, her daughter will be good and will be okayish in husband's family. If not she will manipulate her to twist and break up husband's family.

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Not just that enough, health, finances, daily expenses also to be discussed.

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Oh Bhai sahab

Sir you are legend best advice ever

Not married but have over interfering aunt trying to ruin my life. Tell them it’s a very big sin to cause issues in someone else’s life.

Sorry to hear this I totally believe you. Hope things bet better I have no real solution 😞

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