I have had issues for a long time, and they always, always come back. I feel like I’m at the end of my rope. If I could fake my own murder or accident I wouldn’t think twice about it, I just don’t want the people in my life to have to deal with a suicide. I feel for them. But what about my pain? I’ve tried so much and no matter what I always end up back here again

Are ZocDoc patient ratings reliable, especially for chiropractors and acupuncture? My GP is ok with me trying out either/both and wondering best way to pick. Nothing serious other than posture and muscle soreness issues. Am in UWS by 96th. Thanks.

Has anyone got PRP treatment done for male pattern baldness? How was your experience?

Vyvanase VS. Adderall? I was prescribed Vyvanase for ADD as to not kick off Mania.

One year sober today. Proud of myself for who I am today. Trying to forgive myself for years of treating myself badly via drinking. Still a struggle.

Anyone have recommendations for a dermatologist, preferably in or near Center City?

Poll question: Do you tend to exercise at your hotel gym, find a local gym, or not exercise while traveling? Why?

Surprise pregnancy after 2 miscarriages, 1 failed IVF, and days before I was to start IVF round 2. I have a trip planned to Greece next week. Is there any reason you would *not* go? I’ll be 5 weeks.

Getting into Pilates this year. For those who do Pilates, do y’all like it? Do you do any other exercises during the week?

Is Planet Fitness a good gym…only attracted due to its low price?

Finally caved and ordered a Peloton. Praying I can lose this COVID holiday weight.

Anyone suffer from PMS/PMDD and notice your hormones basically overpower your meds? In spite of taking my meds, I feel unfocused, fatigued, increased appetite, etc.?

Hey all,
Anyone else feel like this. I love consulting and doing different things and the fast paced nature but sometimes it’s too fast. In college I had extra time because I like having the ability to be meticulous, slow down and verify my work. Not to mention traveling is exciting as well except but how does everyone prevent their brain and life from feeling scrambled?

Need a pep talk! I've gotten into the habit of snacking/eating out of boredom or when procrastinating, so I decided to mentally hit reset and do a monk fast today (36hrs, not my first one). I'm soooo hungry though 😭 trying to stay strong

For anyone who had covid and experienced loss of taste and/or smell. How long did it take for it to come back?

Curious if anyone here has tried Ozempic, and how they’d rate it? Plus, any views on side effects?

Best pregnancy pillow? I’m a stomach sleeper and dreading figuring out how to change my sleep lifelong habits.

Is it ok to wear high altitude training mask as a coronavirus protection mask?

Is anyone buying covid-related travel insurance (other than if required by the country you are visiting) these days? If so, what insurance are you purchasing?

Just took a walk through my very hard-hit neighborhood in Brooklyn and am a little baffled by the people upset by the “lockdown.” (Cont’d)

What's the typical salary for scientific strategist at a top advertising agency in pharma/health?

Hi fishes,

Please help me choose the right option considering yearly hikes, promotions and good projects.

Tech stack - SAP finance
Yoe - 8.5 years

Pwc offer - 19 fixed + variable + 1.5 lakh joining bonus
Accenture offer - 22 fixed + 0-27% variable + 1.5 lakh joining bonus

Hi Fishes, can someone please help me, by being a mentor for me to become a good data engineer, and ultimately help me to guide my way to a good product based company.

Your experienced guidance is all I ask for. Thank you.

Can some one help me refering at job id 105036
Azure Data Engineer in Oracle please?

TIA!

Tmrw is my joining date with optum when will I receive joining formalities and onboarding procedure

Any Monitor Deloitte people in here based out of Southeast Asia? What is the avg. salary raise (base + performance bonus) should I expect from 1st year Consultant to 2nd year C? Current performance scatterplot is at highest top right, utilization rate 90%. Thanks!

Anyone at UBS Group Internal Consulting can share advice on the recruitment process and types of projects you work on?

Any Financial Services or Construction Seniors out there looking for a change or better pay? Crowe has a ton of positions open, and competitive pay, can probably negotiate a sign on bonus. Willing to split the referral bonus as well! Really just need the help! DM me if interested!

Why are companies not more transparent about salaries? It should be required to list the salary range in a posting. I’m tired of applying to jobs only to find out the salary is way less than I’m willing to accept. This needs to change. Stop wasting applicants time and start including the salary range in job postings!!! Rant over.

Does Bofa/BOA not allow their employees to trade in Indian securities ?

What would be a reasonable cost of renting for a single expat dude in Singapore living in decent area ? Would sgd 4K suffice ?

What should I mail to HR to revise my offer ?

Tips for general corp trying to retool to tech trans?

Hi guys, I have accept the offer letter but due to some reason I want to extend DOJ (initial DOJ + 8 days). So, I mail her about this she told me start working on pre-joining formalities we will share new DOJ shortly. But it's been a two day's I haven't got any mail. So, How many day's it will take to revised offer with new DOJ ? Should I poke her every day ?

Hate mindtree! Horrible culture

I get asked all the time to consult for certain clients on the marketplace pertaining to my area of expertise at my current job. Is it unethical to take these paid calls even if I remain anonymous and do not disclose any confidential information?

Hello! Does anyone have any connections at Meta, TikTok and Apple ? I found some job postings I plan to apply to… before I do I would love to get some advice :)

sometimes i want to disappear

Been feeling pretty great the last few days. Was able to reflect a bit and this Summer/Fall up until about a week ago were some of lowest points I’ve felt in my life. I’m glad I’m doing better now but looking for ways to better manage my emotions. I don’t want to have these extreme highs/lows. Any advice?

I just want to say that I am so grateful for this community. It’s remarkable that we can come on here, share our struggles and feel less alone, a little more seen and you all take time to.. cont’d

I am having a serious meltdown right now as I am typing it. Broke up a few months ago, seeiously wanted to move out of EY which for some reason I am not able to get out of (received nth rejection from the interview just now). It just seems that my life is not going anywhere. Feel I am stuck in a prison and cant break free. Feel so claustrophobic!!! Has anyone ever felt like that!!

Have a job interview for a role I’m excited about tomorrow but I’m so depressed and tired I can’t even muster up the energy to prep. Any words of encouragement would be great

My fiancé (6 years together) just left me from the other side of the world. Feel pretty numb but know the sadness will come. Gutted

Can’t focus. All I do is scroll through my phone. Work is not challenging and I feel checked out. My project wants me to take on a new role but I’m nervous about it. Work feels so different since the pandemic. Feel like all I do is exist at it and I’m always waiting around. Anyone else?

My firm is virtual - all work done remotely in home office unless on client site. Haven’t traveled since mid October. It’s driving me nuts. What do you recommend doing?

If anyone is available to chat for a few minutes today in DM, I just need some support that I can save my relationship after a fight which has sent me into a depressive episode. Thanks fam :)

Recently was put on the bench and freaking out about being on it too long. Unsure if my career niche (government) is for me. Honestly struggling and hoping I can find a new job but no where is biting.

I always avoid talking on the phone as much as possible. I’ve always been like this for some reason. I feel like don’t have anything good to say to keep the other person engaged even if it’s a friend. Anybody overcome a fear like this?

23M here. Anybody have any tips or book recommendations on not feeling haunted by your past and anxiety about the future and consistently stay in a “FLOW STATE”.I’m currently reading the Power of Now. I have a habit of burning bridges because I feel that I’m perpetually trying to fit in and act “cool”. I feel that I’ve always been somewhat unconfident but every year it seems to be more and more difficult to manage and taxing emotionally. I go to the gym 4 times a week, try to eat clean, socializ

I’ve been on Zoloft since January. Gradually increased from 50mg to 150mg for anxiety & depression. It’s helped a ton. But I’ve been having super vivid and realistic dreams that I remember every detail. I know it’s common but a reoccurring one is dream me wants to break up with my boyfriend of a year. In my dream, I keep seeing for one reason or another I don’t want to be with him. But it’s not the case in real life. But it feels so real that when I wake up I start to question my relationship...

Experiences with Buspar for anxiety? New psych wants me to switch wellbutrin for Buspar 3x daily 5 mg. I have been on a high dose of Lexapro (30 mg) since March, with 100 mg wellbutrin a day. The Lexapro is keeping my depression in check but anxiety is thru the roof this year.

Is there an app out there that will tell you if you’re having a negative thought and what the associated pattern is? Reading all these ChatGPT things makes it feel like this would be helpful in times you need some help.

Completely torn on how to manage my family’s life during Covid. We’ve been safe since we had a pandemic baby and another on the way. We WFH so don’t actually put ourselves at risk on a day to day basis. But seeing so many friends (with babies) go out and live life is giving severe me FOMO and continuing to lose out on close friendships. Anyone still playing it safe and how are you dealing?