I have recently joined in a product based company..work culture is horrible with unrealistic expectations..i have to work here more than 13 hrs daily..i joined as a java developer..manager telling everyone to work on holiday including Saturday and Sunday..i checked with my wife my wife told me that you are not able to handle the pressure it's a norm in it you get high package you have to work in weekend also..need suggestion...may be I am not good.
7.5 yr exp
CTC :27lpa(25 fixed)

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Not necessary.. It's a toxic work environment bro.. Leave asap.. I work in a product based too.. YOE 17 CTC 60 lpa fixed.. Great WLB

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What’s the company name

Man, i totally get you. Believe me. My wife used to tell me the same thing. I had to prove her wrong to shut her up. I switched to a better paying job with a better work life balance and now she knows that work life balance need not always be proportional to salary.
Moral of the story: Loving your wife doesn't mean you always have to listen to her, and wise versa 😁🤣

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Hoping I can also switch to good company with good wlf

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It's time to leave job and wife if possible

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I think she is sharing her opinion casually. There are two options only either accept or search for better opportunity in terms of WLB.

CTC != WORK LIFE BALANCE. I earn 27 LPA for 5 YOE. I work on an average 4-5 hrs.

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Facing same issue... Any opening for SDET role in Blackrock @accenture2

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Moral of the story. Wife is always right.

I learned after I got married. Life will be so happy.

Man depends on you. What’s your priority.
For me work life balance. Money you can earn by opening a tea shop also.

FYI YOE=6, 32 fixed

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Data Scientist is in Birlasoft. Because IBM Consulting doesn't pay that much and Infosys doesn't even pay *3 times salary. And since he has a client it can't be IBM ISL.
I find it crazy that his company is billing so much to the client for him.

I am also facing the similar situation and now it's been 3 months joining a new company and my mental health is very bad..also not able to sleep properly from 1 month cuz of pressure and no support from the team....so Iast week itself I have started job hunting...wlb and mental peace is very important.

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Thank you for the suggestion

Bro with same yoe, I'm earing twice than you. And still have the wlb. Never worked on weekends.. Never worked after 6 in the evening.
The culture of your org is bad. Not the ctc

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And abhi ek offer hai 68 ka dubai se. Wfh

Let me know company name so i avoid

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The samsung guys in my PG are most introvert and always look tired that how WLB is

Bro most of the ppl not working on weekends.. you just look better company

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Yes, whatever happens don't work on weekends.

Itni jaldi shaadi karogy toh yahi advices milenge .. sare abnormalities “norm” hi lagenge ! 😅😅

Btw on a serious note - find a new job , chill for a while ! Take a sick leave to rejuvenate ❤️ ! Find a new company !!

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It's good that people are talking on other aspects as well which is beyond CTC🤗

Bro I also switched to impetus few months back and facing similar or even worse condition. I can already see the damage done to my mental health and body in last 3 months. Just face with rigidness , tell them you can't and if still not agree put down papers, jo hoga dekha jayega. That's the strategy I'm opting, life and dimakh rehega to kr lenge kuch na kuch.

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True there is no WLB here.Bhai pka bofa m hoga

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Is it some Japanese company like rakuten? 😆

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Yes Toshiba software India

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Your wife is ignorant and you have a really bad manager. It's time for you to search for a new job.

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Your WIFE is wrong. High package doesn't mean you need to work every weekend. Try to discuss this with your manager. If nothing works, time to reactivate naukri.

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Hi,
The salary is less, don't slog extra hours in this pay .
During start of sprint tell that this is not achievable. Set the expectations right away.

Ye nikalenge nahi.

U work 5 hrs , rest baki ka aap freelance karo.

dono haath me paisa rakho.

Note: work for money, not for the company

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Estimate double

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Apart from the jokes here, I think your wife is right on this. I understand getting called on weekends for urgent work is normal in this industry, but it shouldn't be done every week. It's time for you stand up for yourself instead of feeling sorry for yourself. Keep in mind, you got hired for a reason.

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Thanks for the suggestion

Kya bandi paye ho Sir..Mental health is important..She has to support you in this situation. What kind of suggestion she is giving. I would suggest change the company which has better wlb.

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First 6 month struggle will be there.

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Direct payroll

For which role is 27 lpa considered high package for 7.5 YOE?

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Associate principal software engineer

At first i thought, your wife is your manager 😂

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