I have trouble trusting people. I feel like a jerk as I actually do think my bosses actually do have their best intentions for me. They never flip out and always help guide me to a solution. I know this is all a paycheck and a job. People have their own agendas, but maybe I got lucky finally after having horrendous bosses for years. But, it’s still hard to believe that. IDK why and it’s driving me crazy.

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I went above my direct boss to the partner I have a relationship with to ask directly for a raise. I guess that’s a no no but I would have been talked out of it so that’s why I did it that way.

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It’s normal. Don’t trust anyone at these firms

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The consulting industry has a way of making people cynical. It sounds like you’re recovering from some awful bosses and bad culture. The most successful people I know are both kind and hardworking. My motto has always been to look out for other people’s best interests, even if I don’t necessarily benefit from it in the moment. My long term reputation matters. Yes, it’s a paycheck and job, but not everyone is out to get you or only looks out for themselves. Be shrewd but trusting.

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