I have very bad trust issues. I am needy, clingy, and cannot trust at all. I started a new relationship recently and I don’t want to ruin it. Anyone else dealt with similar issues ? Help me 😐

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Go on the offensive. Find a side piece.

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How can this lead to trust considering I’m the one lying ? 🤔🤔🤔

Go to counseling.

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The question is why do you have trust issues? Father problems? Something happen to you as a child? I think people need to work on themselves before worrying about a relationship

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These types of relationships aren't by chance. You're gravitating towards them. Hopefully you can speak to someone to build up some confidence in yourself to trust that someone wants to be with you.

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Go talk to someone.

You may have unresolved issues from something earlier in your life. They can help you work through them. Having trust issues will keep you from ever having a great relationship.

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Which type of councilor would you suggest ?

Any counseling works? Relationship?

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