I have zero interest in hearing about what goes on during my SO’s work day (also don’t have any interest in talking about my work BS to her). She’s quite the opposite. Anyone else in the same boat? How do you make it work?

I have offer at infosys- 19.15 LPA ( includes variable) and Valuelabs -21 LPa (fixed and permanent wfh). Which one to choose in case of work life balance and job security

How common are prenups in UK among middle-class? I'm thinking of asking my SO for one but I worry it would be viewed by anyone else as a one foot-out-the-door kinda situation. I'm just trying to be safe with little I have, seeing my friends' marriages.

Hi fishes

I have two offers in hand
Reliance Ajio 14LPA(sde-1)
Practo 14-15LPA(in talks with HR)(sde2)

My question is which company should i prefer both in terms of growth and WLB

Techstack java, springboot (backend)
Yoe- 1.5
Thanks in advance.

Anyone work at VMLY&R? What’s work life balance like…? This would be on K&C account

Hi everyone, howz is the work life balance in TIAA?
Do they have onsite opportunities?

How is work life balance in amdocs.

Hi Chicago - just moved here from the UK (via 7 years in Germany) and looking to make some great new friends.

Moved to River North and into trivia nights, most sports, movies etc and would love to find some people open to adding a city newbie to the group!

42m if that matters 🤷🏻‍♂️😁

Hi All
I got recently hired at Coforge for HSBC account. I am a Java Developer (Spring, Spring boot, Micro services). Could someone please share their experience working with HSBC client. How is the work, work life balance and learning experience?
It would also be very helpful if someone details the tech stack from a Java developer perspective.
Thanks in advance.

I can sacrifice an entire weekend cleaning my house so that wife's friend can spend the week. When I ask for a couple hours to help get the house clean so a house cleaner can effectively clean I'm told that's my prerogative and get no help. Well fuck me for being tired of living in a messy house.

Why people get married if the chance of long lasting happiness is so low?

Anyone work for a bank with good work life balance? Wondering if it’s just the industry that requires a lot of hours

For the married folk, curious as to how you met your partner? Family setup or through dating? I know depending on cultures certain things are frowned upon so I’m curious 🤗

Dyslexia! After having our kindergartener son tested (privately) related to ADHD, we were told he may have dyslexia too (which would explain why he struggles so much with phonics but is amazing at sight words). He has a very high IQ. As a voracious reader, I am finding myself unexpectedly distraught that something that I have loved so much will be such a struggle for him, and worrying that it will affect his motivation and may steer him away from things he may otherwise love.
Tips/Commiseration?

How is work life balance and work/team culture in PwC SDC Deal Advisory?

Any insights for the World Bank project? How is the work life balance and are there any onsite opportunities?

What’s the best way to pivot into an auditing and GRC role from a more technical role? I am working with a big 4 as a system admin and I am sick of this 24/7 grind. I would love a more stable work life balance but I feel like I’m pidgin holed in my current role.

If you had to quantify the value of work life balance, what would that number be?

Hello Everyone,

Can anyone tell how is the work culture & job security in mindtree especially after merger with LTI? Also work life balance…

YOE - 4 years
Tech Stack- Powerapps, power automate, SharePoint

Thanks

Hi i need 11 likes for dm

What is a good salary/per hour for a audit/tax internship?

YOE - 9 Yrs. Joined CTS at M level in March 22. Want to know what is the appraisal cycle and when likely can I get promoted or how many years from now?

Have some serious hips/thighs/booty, and want some comfortable dress pants....preferably boot cut or with some kind of flair at the bottom. Would love them to be ponte, if possible. +/— size 16

I had quite the day the other day. Coustmer comes in and then ends up leaving with a grossed out look on his face just for him to put in a complaint about my appearance...he down right called me some nasty things for no reason. Still feeling gross about it. He was upset for no reason as far as I'm concerned.

Co-worker 1: why are you so mean?

Co-worker 2: I’ll try being nicer if you try being smarter. Deal?

Me👂👂to 1 + 2: 😬🍿😂

I have got an offer based in Boblingen, Germany with 60k euro as fixed. Will it be enough for a couple with a 3 year old kid ? My major expense would be accommodation, groceries, kid’s school and transportation. Please do let me know your valuable inputs. TIA

How is hike in Naggaro now(with in six month) specially for 20lpa+ guys.

5% Is it?.. 🥺

Who's getting a bonus this year? I just found out we're not getting them at my company.

What is the typical salary range for a senior associate for KPMG's customer experience team?

Hi everyone! What are some fun quarterly events y’all have done through your company’s LGBT group?

Anyone here have any experience working for a major news publication? I’d like to know if that’s a goal worth pursuing and hear some stories.

I missed a project interview twice . Each time because I was in the hospital with family. However i am being discharged today . How do i explain this to the project manager/interviewers that I am basically a doofus and didn’t manage my time well to account for this situation ?
I do want go want to work for the project

Hey everyone! Could you recommend any good materials/books/courses on IT services, B2B marketing?
Thanks! 🙌

Had several rounds of interviews with 3 CD’s and hiring manager over a few weeks. Position ended up being put on hold. Hiring manger mentioned everyone liked me and my work and would like to stay in touch. Request to connect on LinkedIn and no response 👀👀🤨

Hi guys, need likes to activate DM. Thanks in advance.

My closest friend of 15 years told me she's been in love with me for several years. I don't know what to do. She's my closest friend. We talk about everything under the sun. I don't want to lose her. I could feel the pain in her voice as she told me this. She already knows she's just a friend to me. I'm serious about my girlfriend and we've discussed getting married. Is there anything I can do to lessen her pain and preserve the friendship?

Idk if there is a bowl for this, but this has been on my mind pretty heavy lately. Does anyone feel like they are not themselves? I feel I have lost a grasp of who I truly am. I feel like I float through work, float through social situations - react in a BS manner and just say stuff one way or another just to say it. Feel I react how I do in my relationship just bc it’s the “right thing to do”, etc. I feel as if I have become a robot. Contd in comments..

How do you all manage to still plan fun dates? I’m an immigrant and grew up with very few friends due to a poor neighborhood, then only had time to work my butt off in my teens and early 20s. So, I never gained the dating and social skills of others. Somehow I managed to marry and love my wife but I SUCK at planning dates. Can only do so many restaurants, bars, and walks in the park 🥲

Has anyone else’s husband just never really given them complements? My husband refuses to because he says it would make it meaningless when he says them (so he doesn’t say I look nice in case on the ~5 times he says it a year it would be ‘watered down’). I really struggle with it sometimes, and it’s also hard because he expects little affirmations from me (which I happily do anyway because I want him to feel loved)

What’s a reasonable Christmas gift for a girl I’ve been dating for less than 3 weeks?

Started going out with one girl, we are both in the same position career wise. When we go out I tend to pay for everything. Girls before would always force 50/50 but not this one. Is this normal? If not, whats the best way to bring it up without making an argument?

What’s the most equitable way to split rent and finances (e.g., living expenses, going out together) when considering moving in with an SO who is in graduate school and has no real source of income?

Going through a breakup now- we dated for 8 months and have been getting into fights multiple times per week and it’s become toxic (swearing/name calling from him). Yesterday got in a dumb fight and ended up taking all my stuff from his place and we returned our keys, and haven’t talked since. Need inspo stories from ppl who went through something similar. Any recs for moving on?

How do I know if my spouse is being emotionally abusive and a bully? Everytime they can, for any mistake, they unload on me. I’m about to explode.

Looking for some perspective: we just got a brand new $2,000 glass top 78" dining table. I asked my husband to please use a table cloth when he uses that table for d&d with his friends to avoid scratches and the loud dice on the table. He got upset that I "don't let him enjoy our stuff," that I "hate the sound of him having fun," and he says I am being unreasonable. From my perspective, I just want to preserve this expensive piece of furniture that we both love. Am I being unreasonable?

For those of you who are married, how much did you spend on your wedding and was it worth it? Looking back, what are the things you realized didn’t matter / wasn’t worth the spend?

Would you invite your past hookup in your friend group to your wedding? Fiancé wants to invite this guy from her grad school friend group and they used to hook up. I am opposed because I don’t like him and he never respected me (made me feel invisible when fiancé and I first dated and is still a prick to me). Fiancé thinks it’s harsh if we just leave him out while inviting the rest of her friend group

Has anyone ever received an apology from an ex who mistreated you years later? If so, how did you feel? Has anyone ever been the apologizer themselves? It seems like men realize their faults and miswrongs much later when most likely the person has moved on and I am always curious why.

Over a week ago my long distance (ex)bf (US) and I (NL) broke up. I was ready to move to US for him and get married; he’d never want to move to NL. I couldn’t accept that: I needed to know it could still be an option to live in NL in the future, if that became necessary due to my family situation. He ruled it out because pay is lower here, though we’d still be super comfortable financially (top 1-5%). Is money the key driver in such decisions, even in consulting? Did I do right by breaking up?

Small misunderstandings keep happening between bf of 2 months and I. Any advice?

Should I gift a guy if he’s never gifted me before?