I haven't gone on a date in over a year. What is love

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Online dating is rough but don't give up. I felt like I talked to a million dudes with varying levels of success but eventually I found one that was great and we've been together for three years.

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It's something that normal people can find passively, that we need to work for.

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I just reread what I wrote, and it sounded awful. By "normal" I meant people with regular jobs that don't have the travel and complications we do.

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Talking to a guy on tinder who is responding but doesn't seem as interested idk sigh

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Am I the only one who expected the immediate response to be "baby don't hurt me"...

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Do you hook up though?

Same same same

EY1 that's important clarification, haha, I was wondering...

That's what I get for trying to be clever... but to OP's question, I would add to not be afraid of going on bad dates, if you want to stay out there. Love will happen (or not...) if you find the right person. You can talk yourself into settling for something that feels like love, and that usually ends poorly.

EY2 of course not

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