I hear lots of very positive feedback from middle and higher leadership in my business as someone at the front of my career—but have very few action items to show for myself in return. No projects, no solid opportunities. Starting to feel like being black and gay is one of the reasons why. How do you all cope?

I will be doing FET next month and doctor was discussing to have natural or controlled transfer. Was curious to know people who went through transfer, what did u pick and why? I'm not sure what to do....

What is the difference in responsibilities between BCG Associates vs Consultants?

London office - been told to do a 2 hr case round. Any idea what to expect? 2 hrs seems over the roof.

Hello fishes,
Just want to know, does TCS provides the joining bonus? Have anyone got it recently?

How do you handle being asked how much you currently make during a phone screen?

I live in a state that is illegal to ask this. I was just in a call with a recruiter that was hired to assist a firm in hiring for a position that goes up to 90k. She asked me what I'm currently making and instead i replied with what i am looking for as a range. Told her 80k-90k. She then repeated her question (what im i currently earning) and i was shocked so i made up a number and she said.. continue

Is synechron giving permanent wfh?

I'm currently based in the US but I'm planning to move to London. How's the job market for creatives looking currently?

Is EY Tech Risk a good move? Currently an S1 feeling underpaid in MCOL at $86k with a few certs.

How do I support my boyfriend who is crammed with the upcoming deadlines? I understand he’s busy but feel like sometimes I’m just bothering him. POV: I’m also super busy in grad school and studying for cpa exam in a couple of days. We don’t live together.

Looking to renew my passport. Is CKGS legit? Looks like the only option here. Has anyone done this process and what was the experience ? Any advice appreciated🙇‍♀️🙏. TIA.

Hi Fishes,

Macquarie Vs EXL Vs Epam Systems

Which one would you suggest for a Data Engineer.

YOE-6.5

What's the location of LTI in Noida or Delhi, are the offices up and running?
What are pros and cons joining LTI
What's the annual hike and performance bonus %

What if we kissed in the virtual data room?

Anyone ever changed therapists after a year or two with the same one? How did you know it was time for a switch? It feels like I haven’t made any progress in the last few months… (but maybe it’s just the pandemic/virtual sessions?)

I get it, women in engineering are a bit of a rarity. But it feels like my coworkers don't talk around me and it's really awkward. Sometimes I wish I could just blend in

How does a person stay in this field and maintain a balanced/healthy life? Or is it even possible? I’m an average guy..average energy, average smarts, average interest in tax, but compared to peers, I’m great with people. I feel like this mix leaves me chronically burnt out in this field. I was a highly motivated person and like grinding if it allows me to enjoy my hobbies in slower times, but that type of balance is becoming nearly impossible to maintain. Cont.

Anyone going to DU week of may 6th?

I know I can’t be the only one... does anyone else only feel physically attracted to men but romantically attracted to woman? All of my past relationships have failed because I cannot get emotionally attached to a man. I’m 28 and I’m barely coming to terms with this... which I yet don’t understand. Anyone have any insight from your own life experience? Analyze me for all you want.

On a team call, and one of my teammate’s partner walked into the background frame in Calvin Klein undies 🤤. No one mentioned a thing, but it was impossible to miss him.

New to SF! Any popular spots to check out during the weekend? Not sure what’s popular these days in SF.

Embarrassing question but does anyone else travel religiously with wet wipes? If I ever start my own business, I’m stocking my office with Charmin Ultra Soft; not the sandpaper most of our clients use

Coz only you could fill this Empty Space Tell me now ....😛

M.E.A.T. tonight. Anyone?

Have someone ever found a date on Fishbowl ? Is Anyone up for a conversation? I'm straight boii.

Hey hey I just moved to London from the States and am trying to make new friends — anyone interested in brunch/some other activity?

Does anyone in LA know if any lesbian bars/spots? I’m a gay man but one of my girlfriends just came out and I’d love to help her “dive in” and meet other women

Anyone also Scuba dive?

My friend and I were having a debate about how gay men have terrible taste in music. …and she’s not wrong. Beyoncé’s, The Gaga’s, the Ariana’s all bad imo but so good 😅

Anyhoo, what is your favorite song at the moment?

Mine is “Booty Sooo Big, Lawd Have Mercy.” I don’t know who sings it, but it’s played on the radio and makes me wanna twerk my car.

Didn’t think to ask who was in Ptown for the 4th. Hope everyone had a great holiday!

How do you all manage relationships with 50-80% travel? I’m in a rocky spot with travel increasing and it seems like on site travel will be the kiss of death here

Any male 🐠 in central market? 30/m here - DMs open.

Have you been to an orgy? How was your experience? What happened? Were there drugs involved? Do you feel safe? What advice do you have for someone who has never been to one?

Looking for a Gay male doctor in NYC. Want a doctor I can talk to openly about sexual health, especially about colorectal health and reducing risks of disease/cancer in that area.

Does anyone know of any LGBTQ meet up groups for Atlanta? My partner and I are trying to meet new friends ☺️