I will be doing FET next month and doctor was discussing to have natural or controlled transfer. Was curious to know people who went through transfer, what did u pick and why? I'm not sure what to do....
London office - been told to do a 2 hr case round. Any idea what to expect? 2 hrs seems over the roof.
Just want to know, does TCS provides the joining bonus? Have anyone got it recently?
How do you handle being asked how much you currently make during a phone screen?
I live in a state that is illegal to ask this. I was just in a call with a recruiter that was hired to assist a firm in hiring for a position that goes up to 90k. She asked me what I'm currently making and instead i replied with what i am looking for as a range. Told her 80k-90k. She then repeated her question (what im i currently earning) and i was shocked so i made up a number and she said.. continue
I'm currently based in the US but I'm planning to move to London. How's the job market for creatives looking currently?
Is EY Tech Risk a good move? Currently an S1 feeling underpaid in MCOL at $86k with a few certs.
you can't be fired for being LGBT! happy monday everyone!
How do I support my boyfriend who is crammed with the upcoming deadlines? I understand he’s busy but feel like sometimes I’m just bothering him. POV: I’m also super busy in grad school and studying for cpa exam in a couple of days. We don’t live together.
Looking to renew my passport. Is CKGS legit? Looks like the only option here. Has anyone done this process and what was the experience ? Any advice appreciated🙇♀️🙏. TIA.
Macquarie Vs EXL Vs Epam Systems
Which one would you suggest for a Data Engineer.
I was leading a team of 10 people in a SASS product company and now looking for individual contributor roles in frontend.
I'm currently serving 30 days notice and looking for frontend/UI developer roles across India/globe.
YOE - 4.5
Thanks in advance for any referrals, advice or opportunities you can offer 🤗.
What's the location of LTI in Noida or Delhi, are the offices up and running?
What are pros and cons joining LTI
What's the annual hike and performance bonus %
What if we kissed in the virtual data room?
Anyone ever changed therapists after a year or two with the same one? How did you know it was time for a switch? It feels like I haven’t made any progress in the last few months… (but maybe it’s just the pandemic/virtual sessions?)
I get it, women in engineering are a bit of a rarity. But it feels like my coworkers don't talk around me and it's really awkward. Sometimes I wish I could just blend in
How does a person stay in this field and maintain a balanced/healthy life? Or is it even possible? I’m an average guy..average energy, average smarts, average interest in tax, but compared to peers, I’m great with people. I feel like this mix leaves me chronically burnt out in this field. I was a highly motivated person and like grinding if it allows me to enjoy my hobbies in slower times, but that type of balance is becoming nearly impossible to maintain. Cont.
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I know I can’t be the only one... does anyone else only feel physically attracted to men but romantically attracted to woman? All of my past relationships have failed because I cannot get emotionally attached to a man. I’m 28 and I’m barely coming to terms with this... which I yet don’t understand. Anyone have any insight from your own life experience? Analyze me for all you want.
On a team call, and one of my teammate’s partner walked into the background frame in Calvin Klein undies 🤤. No one mentioned a thing, but it was impossible to miss him.
New to SF! Any popular spots to check out during the weekend? Not sure what’s popular these days in SF.
Just another day in the life ...
Interesting article. Still largely against this kind of arrangements – probably because of my past and the fact that viscerally scared of being taken advantage of. That said, the article does nuance the whole topic. https://www.anothermanmag.com/life-culture/11193/the-secret-life-of-gay-sugar-babies
Embarrassing question but does anyone else travel religiously with wet wipes? If I ever start my own business, I’m stocking my office with Charmin Ultra Soft; not the sandpaper most of our clients use
Have someone ever found a date on Fishbowl ? Is Anyone up for a conversation? I'm straight boii.
Hey hey I just moved to London from the States and am trying to make new friends — anyone interested in brunch/some other activity?
Does anyone in LA know if any lesbian bars/spots? I’m a gay man but one of my girlfriends just came out and I’d love to help her “dive in” and meet other women
Anyone also Scuba dive?
My friend and I were having a debate about how gay men have terrible taste in music. …and she’s not wrong. Beyoncé’s, The Gaga’s, the Ariana’s all bad imo but so good 😅
Anyhoo, what is your favorite song at the moment?
Mine is “Booty Sooo Big, Lawd Have Mercy.” I don’t know who sings it, but it’s played on the radio and makes me wanna twerk my car.
How do you all manage relationships with 50-80% travel? I’m in a rocky spot with travel increasing and it seems like on site travel will be the kiss of death here
Have you been to an orgy? How was your experience? What happened? Were there drugs involved? Do you feel safe? What advice do you have for someone who has never been to one?
Looking for a Gay male doctor in NYC. Want a doctor I can talk to openly about sexual health, especially about colorectal health and reducing risks of disease/cancer in that area.
Does anyone know of any LGBTQ meet up groups for Atlanta? My partner and I are trying to meet new friends ☺️
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Do the seniors who praise you actually have projects and serious proposal bids live right now? If so, just be blunt that you want in. It may be discrimination but there are other possible explanations.
Sometimes weaker seniors like to lock in the best talent to work on the left field proposals and mini projects that are difficult/hard to win. And staff others when they win safe long term projects. Some people like that kind of outsider career track (high risk high return) but you obviously don’t. A good staffing organisation should steer against this kind of behavior but these are strange times.
Get advice from people who know the specific context rather than from us.
Agreed. We’re on the same page. Pivoting internally and externally and always trying to give it a best foot forward—do not like to allow malady to drive the car.
Lease was recently broken, and as soon as I was on a plane I got a ping—very distasteful staffing news compounded with all of this inadequate space for takeoff and/or resource in a “consulting development program”. The change is on the horizon, with or without Accenture.
Sounds like imposter syndrome. Doing a good job at your day to day is worth good praise. Your straight white counterparts are Accelerating in their Career as well for doing well at the job they're doing. don't feel the need to overcompensate
I feel like I have to overcompensate because I’m working 2x and not getting basic results to stay afloat...
OP, have you asked them how you can help? No one is just going to give you an action item starting out. Make yourself more available to these leaders and if you do a good job the first time you’d be set. I also agree with D1, maybe you have some imposter syndrome going. I know I did. Plus, COVID has changed things so many none of them action items to give (doubtful though, but possible).