I highly suspect that my GM and another manager have had an inappropriate relationship in the past and she is holding it over his head. She has an enviable schedule and she does whatever she wants. A coworker who recently left intimated that they were inappropriately close before I started with the company. I feel that if I go to HR that I may be terminated for being a whistleblower. Has anyone been through this and what did you do?

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