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This is sad. Makes me so damn depressed.
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I made pavlovas and they are delicious
What did everyone get themselves?
Who else is ready to take a nap? 😴
Chief
I was one of those kids. My dad immigrated to this country and worked his butt off to give my family a better life. Weekends were sacred time with him - and whenever he was able to, he joined us for family dinners (we always ate together as a family, even if was just with my mom). When traveling, we had evening good night calls - he was super involved in school and extra curriculars. Im sure it was a lot for him, but he made it look easy. I never once doubted that he cared.
I’m super close to my parents today. I appreciate their hard work and sacrifice. I absolutely believe that family comes first for them - they taught me the same values, while working hard to give me a life beyond what they had.
100% accurate.
No matter the mental gymnastics they want to use, they just can't be there.
I get my kids every morning, do half of drop off and pickups, every bath, bedtime, etc. all during the week.
Rising Star
I think that arguably the biggest thing is that sometimes the kid needs you and you need to be there 100%. 100% present, 100% priority. My dad took my call all the time, but it’s always him stepping out from an important meeting. Yes, he prioritized me, but I’m still an inconvenience in a way.
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Interesting confession. Do you factor in the money and opportunity that work ethic brings into the home?
Chief
It's gotta be a balance
It depends on the person and their circumstances. I’m sure there are people who find themselves in positions where they need to work long hours to support their family. Not everyone is able to land a good-paying 8-5 job
Pro
I think we currently have more of a problem in the US with young adults who never had any independence as a child. With their parents always there and always doing things for them, they are shocked when they hit the real world. Evidence on this app every day.
So I think balance is necessary, but no, I don’t agree with your premise.