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I just have such difficulty labeling racist and micro aggressive behavior. It doesn’t make sense to me that people can be so racist when they’re this highly qualified and educated. Having my therapist and friends label that for me has been incredibly helpful. Changing my job and realizing that it was a toxic work environment has incredibly helped my mental health as well. Relocating to my new place would be the last piece of the puzzle.

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