I know this sounds weird, but I think my fiancé has my tech tapped… I journal and write short stories that I’ve used as an outlet for years. Way before I met him. Lately, it feels like he repeats things that I’ve written or said over the phone. For example, I’ll tell a friend that I want to visit her in San Diego. Then, he’ll come home and say I should visit my friend in San Diego soon. Am I paranoid or is he really listening? I feel violated and exposed. He doesn’t have a tech background.

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You don’t need a tech background to install spyware. A quick Google search can get you what you need to start spying.

In terms of your own relationship I would just say that all relationships are based on trust. If you don’t trust him then you first need to deal with that by being an adult and have a candid conversation.

If it turns out he is spying then my only suggestion is to run for the fucking hills and never look back. That type of violation of privacy is borderline sick.


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