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I left a job at a nonprofit org 2 mo. ago that sucked me dry... I felt undervalued and I no longer connected well with most staff. However, I spent the last 5 years there and I feel glued to them emotionally. I love the cause and the work they do. I did make some connections. Now I'm in a new job that I LOVE and feel VERY valued at, but I'm freelancing for my old org to help them out and make extra $$. I feel shunned, though, like they secretly hate me. How do I handle this internal dilemma?

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