I like a girl at work. How do I ask her out?

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Don't date at work

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"Hey you wanna go out?"

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Depending on how close you guys work together, DB is probably right. If you don't deal with her directly on assist basis and it's not managerial, just ask if she fancies a coffee one day. See how the conversation goes, and if she is open then just ask. If she says no or looks uncomfortable, accept she's not interested and leave it to her. :)

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Assess if she likes you too and if yes casually ask her out. If she says no or tries to run away, consider it that she's not interested

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Just ask her to grab a drink after work, this is not rocket science

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I don't think guys at JPM can actually talk to women, at least not the ones on my floor

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JPM3's suggestion is so textbook 'nice guys finish last' it makes me cringe

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Agree @zhenya 😜

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Don't

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Grow a big pair and ask her out.

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Thanks all!

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^ it was a joke you idiot

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On a daily basis * f%$#! autocorrect

Agree with 'ol DB above. Stir well clear of that shit. Don't say you weren't warned...

Offer to do all her outstanding work so she can make 5pm happy hour on Fridays. Have fun!

Agree with Zhenya.

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