I look at this bowl- half of the issues here are visa related... I am 2nd gen desi and citizen by birth. Will it be considered +ve/-ve to talk about my this credential when dating desi girls? Punjabi desi here M 26. My favorites are those in research/teaching profession.

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You should print your citizen status on a cap & have a t-shirt saying it too.

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Stop pimping yourself

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Jeez why so much negativity here... OP don't think too much about the visa or citizenship status.. You do you and the right girl will love you regardless

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Desi guys should stop giving so much attention to desi girls. Focus on hispanics, black women and some indianize white women they love s asians and will probably treat you better than s asian women.

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1) stop generalization about visa issues... its all about who posts what type of questions
2)Nothing wrong in discussing the credential if other person isn’t taking it in wrong way...just don’t generalize and be open and patience to hear her opinion as well... also its not necessary to agree or disagree to the opinion

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OP these visa chasers gonna hate no matter what. Wear your 🇺🇸 with pride.

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Waise bhi desi ladkiya desi laundo ko ghas nahi.dalati. atleast leave desi girls for desi guys. Tu ABCD se ishq ladayo munde.

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Guys this is a troll post.

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Firstly I don’t think it’s even needed for u to say ur a citizen. I guess as soon as u open ur mouth ppl can understand by your abcd accent . So just talk like a normal human being that’s enough

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That really depends - do you want a girl to be in a relationship with you because of your citizenship? Do you think such a relationship is sustainable.

M2 - are you serious? Lol. First off it’s person by person and def not gonna generalize race. Have dated lots of desi and treatment is positive across the board from my side and theirs. I’m simple and date the same.

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