I love my mom but she gets made when I don’t eat all the groceries she buys, but also tells me I’m fat and I shouldn’t eat as much. I literally only eat one meal a day and have acquired an unhealthy relationship with food where I stress out if my meal has more than 500cal in one sitting

I had a wedding planned for last May. Covid struck and we delayed until September originally thinking the pandemic would pass. We were wrong. Delayed it again until this upcoming May. We are 6 months out so I don’t want to be an alarmist but things are going very poorly again. What are the chances of things looking normal-ish by then? My SO does the brunt of the planning which I greatly appreciate and she is great at it, but I don’t know how much more of the rescheduling she can take.

Strategist, to clients:
"Those two ideas should make out and have a baby."

what are the biggest red flags in a distance relationship? I would say being spotty on communication is the biggest one for me.

Before I get over my crush I wanna punch him in the face because I didn’t go out of my way to find him, he found me and caused the pain that’s been hard to get over. It was not my fault 😞 stuck between losing a friend, telling him how I feel or ignore him forever.

I cried in an Uber pool thinking about my ex

How are we all doing? Hangin’ in there? I’m here to chat/play iMessage games/whatever if anyone feels lonely. Don’t forget to check in on your friends and family ✨

Ive been in a relationship for 7 months. We met 4+ years ago but it didn't go anywhere at that time. We kept running into each other throughout the years and stayed cordial. When we started talking again this time around, I had flat out asked him about many things including education. Contd.

Do other tech parents keep their kids away from social media? My daughter is 12 and I'm apparently the 'worst mom ever' because she can't have social media and I turn off the wifi at night.

I have 1 one year old and have told my husband that I want to get divorced. He is being immature about the process and is just trying to make everything difficult. Sometimes he says he will move out, then he says the baby and I should, sometimes he says he wants custody when the real reason im leaving is his lack of interest amd resppnsibility toward our family. I can tell he is hurt and is upset that i dont love him anymore and want to get everything ready to make the exit easy. How do I start?

How much do you pay for daycare? Location and number of kids?

Just some self affirmation. If her fear of commitment lands us not dating, I'll bounce back. I live in one of the most beautiful places in the world, have a loving family and many friends, and a rewarding job that challenges me. I'll rediscover inner peace before I date, and I'll find my long term partner eventually.

Why is it so hard to join a group ? My boyfriend has his group of friends (both males and females) but every time we hang out with them, I feel left out because I don’t have history with them and they all have their inside jokes and stories. He said I need to try more to interact with them but honestly I feel like certain friends mostly his female bestie is trying to not include me. I’ve tried to become friends with her but she’s not putting in effort to get to know me … I need advice.

Where can I find new friends? I feel like my priorities are so different from them now. They are still in a hyper competitive rat race mindset. Every conversation is about finmemes or PE recruiting or how their date works at Wells instead of at Goldman. I’m the only one in a stable relationship and everyone I’ve set them up with they’ve turned down based up picture alone. They have been my friends all through college but I’m tired of how bitter and competitive they’ve become.

Where to find the best roommates that are friend-material, kind,'friendly, want to include you in their friend group, share similar values as you and won't judge you?

Current working as a Director of Sales and Marketing at a large hotel chain. I am now trying to branch out to a work from home position as I have a special needs bonus daughter who we now have every other week 💜. Would love to find something full time from home within the industry, or in the travel market so I can be with her.

I've been with my gf for almost 6 months now. For context she's still in grad school (we have a 2 year age gap) and I'm struggling to feel physically attracted to her. I have a good job, decent amounts of stress, I like to work out, spend time with friends, and am very outgoing. She's super sweet, kind, sensitive, and brilliant. I find her attractive but I find the fact that she's always up in my business and available to me unattractive. She also just got an amazing job in another state (1/2)

Wife got lawyer, and I am interviewing lawyers starting tomorrow. I am primary breadwinner (95%), but she is citing at-fault divorce. I have been having substance abuse issues and anger issues (no physical violence). Need help. She is okay about negotiating outside lawyers. Can anyone recommend a divorce lawyer in ATL area? Any pointers? No kids. Married for 3 years. I paid her student loans and put her through school.

This might be inappropriate but how often are the rest of you having sex with your significant other or spouse? We have little kids and I work 75 hours a week so I am lucky to hook up twice a week and even that is tough to schedule. My wife takes it personally if I am not all over her so I try to make an effort even when I am dead tired. But honestly lately I have been dreaming of a sexless marriage and anything else that will take some of the pressure off me.

My company will file the green card for process for me soon and I’m planning on getting married at the end of the year. Is it better to file as single or as married so that my SO will also get their gc too, but will it impact the timeline? I heard the process for Chinese always take so long. (FYI- I’m not Chinese nor Indian. My SO is Chinese) Is it better to file it with my SO or as single? Does it matter?

I have pretty strong social phobia and am worried about making friends. I'm going to be working for an engineering company so I imagine I don't have to be really up on the latest trends or anything but how can I talk to people without making it sound unnatural?

I'm hiring soon for a clinical pharmacist roles to do prior authorizations from home. It's state programs and mainly 9 to 5. What should the compensation be? It'll include 3 weeks vacation and all holidays off btw.

How do you make friends in this stupid city? I am a 22 yo female that has been working for almost a year. I had so many friends in college. I feel like everyone has weekend plans but me.

Hi guys.. I'm looking for consultant role or contract based role in AI/ML projects.
I have 2+ years exp in ML and data science.
Please let me know if there are any similar roles.

Hi friends,

Please suggest which offer to choose

1) Fidelity Investment on PLSql (25 LPA)
2) Virtusa on Data Engineer role (not yet confirmed)

Having 9 years of total experience and I was basically a PLSQL developer.

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I don’t want to sell but uhhhhhhhhhhhhh

So, i was thinking about to move om. But since corona might hit economics and people. I'm not so sure anymore....

Any book recommendations about human psychology / thought processes?

Hi all! Relocating and looking for someone to takeover my apartment in East Somerville near Assembly Square. $2,400/mo for a 1bd + office, private balcony, and shared backyard - DM me if interested!

Trying to add a friend to this bowl but she gets an error: You do not have permission to view this bowl. Any tips?

Posting below q on her behalf.
"I'm EB2 ROW. My company filed my I-485 mid September 2021. It's in the Nebraska center. Can I reasonably excpect approval by April 2022?
I've been reading about Nebraska cases being transferred to other centers-what impact does this have to timelines?"

Hows brillio yearly hikes ? Single digit or double digit

salary for SPs in Boston?

Could someone break down the wealth management roles at JP for me? I see Client Associate, Investment Professional and Investment Specialist roles and some others listed but I want to know which is JP Chase (retail) and JP Private Bank (H/UH NW). I’m also curious what the roles before each of the ones I listed and which are next …which is why I asked for a breakdown since there are roles that aren’t necessarily before/next.

Recently got promoted to a more senior role and got a 10% increase- interested to see what other ppl think. I’d like to ask for more money but also… maybe not the best environment atm given layoffs etc.

Hi Guys,

I am a React Js developer having 2.5 years of Experience. I want to switch my job to get a better hike as the salary I am getting is very less.

Could you please refer me in any of the MNCs where I can get between 9-10 lpa ?

There are a lot of recommendations for Excel plug-ins for Excel but they are almost all for the Windows version, so what recommendations for plugins are there for the Mac version?

Spouse got her biometrics done for H4 extension today. Should we expect decision anytime soon?

Does anyone have any tips/codes for cheaper hotel prices? I’m looking at 4-5 star hotels in Vancouver. Thanks!

It’s such a pretty day today. Anyone want to go to a random coffee shop? All my friends are out for the weekend.

Just some self affirmation. If her fear of commitment lands us not dating, I'll bounce back. I live in one of the most beautiful places in the world, have a loving family and many friends, and a rewarding job that challenges me. I'll rediscover inner peace before I date, and I'll find my long term partner eventually.

Public carry shouldn’t be legal. We’re not living in the Wild Wild West.

It’s my 3 year anniversary of working and I feel so unaccomplished

I can’t stand work from home and can’t wait for it to be over. However, I dread losing my 24/7 bidet access. The return to Scott one ply is gonna be ROUGH 🥲

How many of you here think you are way too attractive?

How much do you all really tip for uber eats delivery. Given uber charges delivery fees and surcharges, I get really confused. If the person leaves your food outside the building vs your doorstep do you tip? What is expected!!! Can someone help this immigrant?

Almost every Saturday morning in bed: hmm feeling like ordering in

It’s Father’s Day, but my dad won’t speak to me.

Took the Bengals moneyline, drank about 8 beers, ate 2lbs of wings... now setting my alarm for 4:45 am. What a rude awakening this is will be.

Does anyone have a Boos Block cutting board? Can I use bamboo on it instead of buying their mineral oil/cream

Yesterday I was the designated driver for the first time ever. Now I don’t have a massive hangover and still had a lot of fun. What a concept

What’s something that “bothers” you about your partner that you choose to let slide? Could be a behavior, a love language they lack, manners, etc.

Given the new threat of Putin to potentially use nuclear weapons in Ukraine, do you think that if he were to use them at all, that would be the “opening” that other countries are waiting to join Ukraine in the fight? Or do you think Ukraine would still have to fight it alone?

When I first joined this app I thought that the number next to someone's company / title indicated how long they worked there / at that position (via LinkedIn connection).