I love my SO so much. We have so much fun together. But some days i feel like he’s not the one and it breaks my heart thinking this. 😭💔

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Nobody is the “1”, they are the .75 you round up to 1!

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Welcome to married life where we all think that on occasion. Consider yourself normal. Trial and tribulations come with relationships.

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Thanks. This makes me feel better.

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*hugs* 🤗 I sympathize with you, girl

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Do you believe in “the one” as a concept or you just don’t believe it’s him?

For context, I’m not sure I believe in “one person for you”, as in “soulmate status”... it’s too idealistic for me. I think some people are better suited for you but relationships are a lot of elements. Partnership, respect, and love, are all components for me. It can be hard work for sure but those mean more to me than a feeling like that. Just my internal thought process!

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If you don’t love him and he’s not the one you shouldn’t drag him along and you should leave.

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Well obviously I meant if they really love the person but have no intention of marrying they shouldn’t string along the person! If you love him then let him go if you both want happiness,

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I’m curious! why do you not think he’s someone you want to marry?

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I feel that. Sometimes I think I want to adopt, and I don’t think he’ll be on board (he’d make an amazing father if he wanted to, the way he acts with his pets is sweet even just to watch). I need far more attention than he enjoys too, so I get a bit lonely sometimes. I still don’t know that we’ll be together forever but I do know I love him more than anything, he’s so gentle/kind/caring. So idk I guess we’re just here vibing.

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