I love what I do and where I work - I’ve grown a great network/ reputation throughout the entire company, but it’s getting to that point in my life where we want to build a family. My company offers zero paid leave and has confirmed that policy will stay in place. Not to mention we cannot accumulate PTO and most only get 2-3 weeks off a year AND the company blocked FMLA because it’s owned and operated on tribal land. I’m just not sure if it’s worth seeking new opportunities or sticking it out?

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Try presenting an argument for why paid leave is beneficial to not just you but them too. There are a lot of resources online about this. If not I would leave and I would be clear with them over the reason why

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I second Deloitte 1 on this. I’d give it a shot by asking but otherwise start looking elsewhere. 0 paternity leave AND no FMLA is just incompatible with building a family, especially at first. Best of luck to you

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