I (M25) have been together with my gf (F22) for 18 months - about 6 months we started to get in the habit of not resolving after fights. At this point, I know I like her but also am aware that she is probably not the one (unless we both change a lot). I am not sure what to do? How to weigh out the decision?

How much time your divorce procedure took?

Anyone struggling in their new “long distance” relationship? I go back and forth between missing my bf so much it hurts and being ambivalent/questioning his maturity and why the hell im 4.5 years

I thought that this space was for search a relationship 😅🤣😅🤣😅

My ex cheated on me. We dated for 2 years . I been suffering from bad panic attacks since the break up . Any suggestions on healing ? (No I will not hook up with randos )

What’s your secret to a forever lasting marriage?

Hot take: There are no soulmates.

There are people who you are more compatible with than others. Every relationship requires a ton of work.

Being aligned on how you want to live your life and raise your kids is what matters most.

I love watching my 3-year-old's engineering hacks... he wanted to pet the cat so he built a fort out of pillows and waited, now the cat's purring on his lap and they're both asleep

Working from home in customer support provides so much flexibility as a stay at home mom. I can take care of the home, my babies and work without feeling guilty ….talk about mutli-tasking!

Single moms with babies (and no family around to help out): how much do you spend on childcare per month?

My boyfriend and I are having a bad two days. It will pass but every time he coughs or makes a noise I want to throw him out the window. I still love him, but fuck this fucking quarantine I am sick of him.

If you could, which US city would you choose to live, work and start a family?

What usually warrants a married couple to start living separately and coparent their child? No job or financial constraints just that the wife moved from the house with their child to an apartment nearby.

Advice for staying focused while WFH with kids? I’m a new dad to twins and I find myself working late to make up for being distracted by them during the day. I WFH exclusively. My wife is a SAHM and my MIL is here during the day too, but I need to find a better system to avoid getting sucked in to childcare during work hours. Tips?

If you are a couple with no kids, how do you go about finding friends in the area? I struggle so much :( most of my close friends are now scattered across the country and I feel like we have no one close to us anymore. I don’t even know how we’d go about making new friends anymore!

Do you ever feel like you’re just never going to experience real love or be that ‘special someone’ for somebody? I sometimes feel like I am defective in some way, because despite being in my early 30s, I have never felt particularly special to any guy I have been with- it’s always felt like I am the space filler until they meet the right person

I want to do an MBA in the next 2 years. I’m currently up for Senior consultant promotion but I don’t think I can make good money in consulting till I become Partner. My boyfriend isn’t supportive of this decision. He believes it will alter our plans (marriage, children etc). He also thinks immigration will be a big hassle since I’ve already used my 3 years of OPT. What should I do?

It’s been six weeks since he broke up with me and I feel like I’m still in shock. Like I’m in a nightmare I can’t wake up from. I just can’t believe he left me when he always said he never would.

Did anyone see those big bucket of tears from Jihoon, and Devan’s response? Devan needs to go back home with her mom and leave Jihoon with his mom.

What is my buddy?? What kind of help I can expect from him??

Mom of two here (21 month old and 5 month old) who is starting to consider having a third. I am in my late 30’s and my doctor just recommended I start trying at 6 months postpartum. I am thinking I want to start closer to 8-10 months postpartum but have no idea what to expect with a third. Is anyone in a similar situation? Moms or Dads of two, do you ever look back and wish you had tried for three? Moms or Dads of three, how was the transition from two to three and how much did life change?

Infosys is offering me onsite of Australia to retain me..they might offer around 110000 AUD per annum. I have a wife and kid...is this salary okay in Sydney for single income person?

Does your agency make you “make up” the time for Summer Friday’s if you take them?

Hi everyone - just joined and love the great discussions. So I just lateraled to a MM shop from a no name boutique. I was wondering at what point the absolute earliest I can lateral again is? Would love to go to a top BB or boutique for the better buy-side and learning opps. I'm an analyst that graduated in May 2020. Looking forward to hearing your thoughts!

want to throw my hat in the ring for an AD role at 215 McCann, but their careers application page is horrific and buggy — how can I get in touch with their internal recruiter?

Book recommendations please. Prefer non fiction but am open. Thanks!

Trying to pick some fun beach/city and nice weather cities in southern South America (Brazil Chile Argentina Bolivia etc). Any recommendations?

Does McKinsey early access actually offer any leg up? Or is it more or less irrelevant for internship placements

Does anyone know for Deloitte’s life sciences compliance and op risk group if there’s a case for SC or M level?

Hi guys,

I have given technical interview in pwc.

Its been more then 15 days ..is it like i have failed the interview or can hope that will get an update

Hi 🐠🎏

Need genuine suggestions!!

I have a interview this week with Deloitte UK for Technical Business Analyst position.

What types of questions I can expect?

YOE: 6

TIA

Hi all , Any job opening in the field of accounts and finance? have 6+ years of exp, done with mcom and MBA finance(part time). Little underpaid looking for good jump. Location mumbai

Engineers with anxiety, are there any changes you’ve made at work that have helped you cope with job stress?

Starting at Accenture in the next month and was wondering if anyone who currently works there could provide the 2022 holiday list? Just wanted to make sure of the calendar before planning flights for upcoming holidays/events

How is EY GDS pune office, is it in good location and ambiance 😅

Happy 2017 everyone!! How's everyone feeling?

Is it unfair to expect a guy to foot the bill in the first date?

Any Walmart pros here who know about their structure and the differences between Manager I, II and III? I’m interested in Walmart Connect and trying to match up to the right level.

Not intending this as a brag or anything - just genuinely seeking advice. I will be promoted soon (unusually early in my tenure at company), with corresponding pay bump (though unclear what the "norm" or "baseline" is for this level). Wondering whether I should even try negotiating for anything more now (worried that'd make me look ungrateful and entitled) or just accept what's given to me given the unusual circumstance and maybe reopen comp discussion once I've settled into the role? TIA!

What is the largest signing bonus you’ve received? What percentage of base annual comp was it?

SO says I don’t acknowledge things for what they are and I try to find excuses. It’s been a big red flag for him and he sees it as immaturity and shadiness. I think he takes what I do the wrong way, and only try to explain my intent. I don’t know how to fix this

Got broken up with by my bf of 1 yr. He said he felt like something was missing from our relationship but couldn’t (or wouldn’t) say what. I know I should just focus on moving on but I can’t help but fixate on this. We had similar goals, values, lifestyles and were pretty compatible. We got along great and the physical chemistry was still there. So what could be missing????

My gf and I are having a big discussion and I would love to get your thoughts on this. It’s about how much we keep in touch and communicate when I’m on the road. She needs to hear from me everyday multiple times and if I don’t answer her texts within a few hours, she can get quite controlling (text over and over again, also on my work phone, asks what I am doing and gets upset). I am not used to that and have the trust if she doesn’t text back, that it’s for good reasons, busy at work…. (Ctd)

Is this group still popping or??

Do you think it matters if you and your SO’s friends are similar? My boyfriend and my backgrounds are very different and while we are fine with each other’s friends, I would never mesh our friend groups. A part of me always get envious of couples who are able to expand their friend groups and do fun things together

Have you ever been or currently in a relationship with someone of who’s political beliefs conflict with your own?

Not dealing with this currently have dealt with it in the past. My parents started out opposites but now believe similarly. I’m wondering if it is possible in this day and age.

My closest friend of 15 years told me she's been in love with me for several years. I don't know what to do. She's my closest friend. We talk about everything under the sun. I don't want to lose her. I could feel the pain in her voice as she told me this. She already knows she's just a friend to me. I'm serious about my girlfriend and we've discussed getting married. Is there anything I can do to lessen her pain and preserve the friendship?

I thought that this space was for search a relationship 😅🤣😅🤣😅

My ex cheated on me. We dated for 2 years . I been suffering from bad panic attacks since the break up . Any suggestions on healing ? (No I will not hook up with randos )

How do you interpret a guy watching all of your insta stories basically within 30 mins of posting them, and ‘liking’ them frequently. For example, I was at a wedding last weekend and posting photos til like 5 am- he watched every single one almost instantly

What usually warrants a married couple to start living separately and coparent their child? No job or financial constraints just that the wife moved from the house with their child to an apartment nearby.

I need some advice. I met a guy on a dating app. We talked for a few months before meeting up in person about a couple weeks ago (we live in different states that’s why it took so long to meet up). Anyways we hungout everyday that he was in my city. We casually talked about him visiting again soon. We talked everyday since until a few days ago. He just stopped responding… he’s been online though… what do you guys think?

Do you ever feel like you’re just never going to experience real love or be that ‘special someone’ for somebody? I sometimes feel like I am defective in some way, because despite being in my early 30s, I have never felt particularly special to any guy I have been with- it’s always felt like I am the space filler until they meet the right person

If someone ghosts you but you still have an article of their clothing, and they never asked for it back, should you just donate it?

I want to do an MBA in the next 2 years. I’m currently up for Senior consultant promotion but I don’t think I can make good money in consulting till I become Partner. My boyfriend isn’t supportive of this decision. He believes it will alter our plans (marriage, children etc). He also thinks immigration will be a big hassle since I’ve already used my 3 years of OPT. What should I do?

For the people in relationships/marriage in which the woman is making significantly more than the man, how have you fared so far? Would like to know your thoughts

I keep having sex with my ex and want to get back together (this is a recent thought & he doesn’t know) but we live on opposite coasts now. We broke up in 2016 yet we manage to hook up pretty much every other time we see each other. It always starts w an innocent hangout but he still does boyfriend duties and we end up hooking up. It feels good but also wrong at the same time. Is this normal? Am I too old for this F/30? I don’t do this with any of my other exes. Not even attracted to them anymo.