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I’d count your blessings and move on. You don’t know how you could get involved and how it might affect you.
I was with you, until you said “fake account.” If you choose to do something about it, then why not stand behind your decision? You matched with him and then what? Did you meet in person? Talk offline? Date? He could easily say it wasn’t him.
Thanks, AC1 🫶
Please do it. I'm sick of these nasty men
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Fwiw I will be forever grateful to the woman (not close to me) who told me what my cheating ex was doing. I literally thanked her, confronted him, left that man and never looked back.
I acknowledge others may have different reactions (+ to my knowledge, my ex never found out exactly how I learned about his infidelity).
No don’t mess with it. Just move on.
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I went on a date with a guy that turned out to be engaged. Found her and messaged on Linkedin since I’m not on any other SM platforms. If it were my man, I’d wanna know!
Sure,why not? Just send screenshots of your conversations w him on and off the app and pictures of his profile. Don’t expect a pleasant response. And be prepared to answer one round of questions before disengaging entirely. Be prepared that the cheater knows your true identity and will retaliate. Oh wait.
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Dude could be a psycho and retaliate. I wouldn’t go there.
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It’s not a risk I’m personally willing to take. For all I know the dude will figure out the IP address the message was sent from and become a stalker.
If he’s insane enough to create a dating profile when he’s obviously married, I’m staying away. Or for all we know they are in an open relationship or separated. Not involving myself.
Mind your own business and don’t get into any mess
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You don’t know their situation.
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The “harm” is not insignificant because you don’t know how people are going to react. If you haven’t been on a date with this person and can confirm that for a fact it is him, mind your business.
Block him on the app, and then stay out of it & move on. Always always stay out of it.
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So much this. You're just asking for trouble by getting involved. You won't be his first or last.
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Yes do it, just send her screenshots of his dating profile. Tell her “From woman to woman, thought I’d let you know that your husband is on dating apps actively messaging women”.
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Because being a woman has nothing to do with it.
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Op- Before you decide anything about it, i suggest you go through this entire thread a woman posted today.. Some women are over emotional and unreasonably reactive IMO. They might totally forget that their guy did them wrong, and may start to blame you instead, even when you’re trying to help them. So choose carefully, based on what you think will be worth it!
https://joinfishbowl.com/post_i7kjm1hjaa
dammit really want to see this but for some reason i don’t have access to view the post - what were the highlights?
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I think if you reach out, do nothing more than send a screenshot of the guy’s profile. Don’t send any screenshots of your messages that would identify you as the person who told his wife. She might be very grateful for the information or she might be pissed but either way, she’ll know.
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My guy friend is in an open marriage (kinda, they are separated but have chosen to stay legally married due to insurance reasons). He is upfront about the situation but when he was dating, the women wouldn’t believe him and start texting the ex-wife to “make sure the story checks out”. The ex-wife wants nothing to do with it. They have an agreement and she doesn’t want to be in the circle. Too many people were finding her information so my guy friend stopped the dating for now because it became a safety concern.
Point being, you don’t know their situation and the wife might not want to be in the know. It’s stressful doing things like this. It isn’t your job to set the record straight. Leave it alone.
I was engaged and cheated on. I wish the other woman would’ve told me… put yourself in the wife’s shoes.
I called everything off and moved out. I could no longer trust him and he wasn’t the person I initially fell in love with.
Yeah if this person is already actively looking for people on dating apps who knows what else he could do
Idk if this is possible but could someone have lifted his photos to create a fake profile? It happens.
Likely if he is very attractive
I would
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How do you know he is married