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I matched with a Partner from my office and he messaged me. He’s really hot and I want him but idk if it’s professional? PS. I’m an intern there

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I succumbed to this temptation in my younger days and it was totally great. The hookup cemented our friendship probably. We both moved on in our careers but I kept in touch with him and he’s helped me with advice and job recommendations a few times over the years.

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👆🏻is why partners aren’t worth their weight in gold 😀

He’ll appreciate if you’re transparent that you recognize him from work. And share the context that you won’t be returning - was just here for the summer. But again, I’d be cautious about meeting unless you’re 100% sure that you won’t catch feelings. A >10 age gap may seem hot in the moment, but you never know if your paths may cross in the future. And I don’t trust him just from the fact he’s dating way out of his circle (no offense to you at all - I’m sure you’re great, but he may have ulterior motives). At the end of the day, just think about if the benefit from the hookup is worth the messiness that could come from it. Always here to support you in either direction. Feel free to DM :)

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I 👏 am 👏 living 👏 for 👏 this

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Fuck yeah! Immediately saved this post. OP, you better keep us updated on the situash 👏

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as long as you don’t work or report to him it’s fine. spill the tea sis

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Not just your eyes

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ride it real good sis. send pics or it didn’t happen.

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But do you call him daddy, boss, or partner in bed??

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Please do tell OP. We have to live vicariously through you

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Do it do it do it

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I flirted as a staff 1 with a partner who would only visit our team every once in a while. Continue to even years later in a diff practice.

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If he knows where you work that’s highly inappropriate

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Great opportunity to assert your dominance!!

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Depends on your definition of managing up

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PIX

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Jealous

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update: we have been talking to for a few days now and he wants to hangout for the weekend but I’m scared he’ll find out that I’m at his firm. I don’t want to make things awkward. I haven’t had sex since March so I’m not exactly prepared. I’m not sure if I should go to his place or not.

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PWC hush. Don't scare the boy lol

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Slept with a partner when I was a consultant. I made it very clear to him that it was only a fling and he said perfect. helps me with job references and actually has turned out to be a really nice guy.

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Did he put: good in groups in the reference ?😂

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So how did this story end?

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Does he realize you work for the same firm? If he is cool with it, go for it. You are not the one risking anything here. Not very judicious of him though.

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No I haven’t told him yet although he knows I’m interning at a consulting firm

The partner is in the channel and loving this much attention.

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So did you provide upwards feedback?

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When does your internship end? Some internships end next Friday. You may be able to just chat semi anonymously in the meantime, and get more serious after you're technically no longer an employee.

Yea he said he has a nice place and no I mean we are meeting before I go to school

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