I miss sex. It’s a very long story that tbh doesn’t make either of us look very good, but this guy (call him Dave) & I have known each of for years & are trying to see what we legitimately are. Before we talked I was casually seeing someone else and when Dave found out he said no sex til I end my fling with the other guy. I was reluctant bc of our history & the fact that Dave is still getting over a relationship but I obliged. Since then barely any sex. Gave up constant sex for barely any. 😕

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Sounds like you need to let lame Dave go and find yourself a John. Johns are dangerous though, the highs will be incredibly high but the lows will make you feel worthless. Actually, stay away from Johns.

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Sounds like marriage!

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Lol. Welcome to my life aka married life

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Lol P1 that sounds awful haha

You should have an honest conversation with him about it

I'm sorry. I know it's hard.

Maybe just tell him you need to have a relationship check-in, and start out by asking him "how do you feel about our sex life"

Did you ask him to stop having sex with other people, or does he just get his satisfaction from knowing you’re not sleeping with anyone else? It doesn’t sound like you guys have figured out what you are either. I would move on.

SC2 he wasn’t sleeping with anyone else as he just got out of a relationship not too long ago. We did discuss sexual exclusivity. I agree we haven’t figured out what, if anything, we are but I’m trying to give a little time to figure it out vs just pulling the plug because I want sex.

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