I miss truly being excited about someone, getting the butterflies and all. Being excited about your day all because you will get to see someone… must be one of the best feelings in the world.

Ugh, is that time of year again! Does anyone have any advice on how to handle "friends" and family members who spout conspiracy theories to avoid getting the flu shot

I’m trying to switch offices to be in the same city as my boyfriend. Current office doesn’t want to let me go but the other office really wants me. Any tips to push this along?

Has anyone ever seen a sex therapist with their significant other? Did it help? Looking for honest feedback. My wife and I have not been on the same page with sex and it’s affecting other areas of our relationship too.

How would you feel going on vacation with friends who want to bring their kid along too?

Are there any mothers here who voluntarily gave primary custody to the kids father? I love my children fiercely but tbh I don’t think I’m cut out to be a single parent. Family and friends tell me I’m a great mom but at the end of the day having them on my own is exhausting and I end up just either letting them do whatever they want Bc I don’t feel strong enough to set a limit about it, or yelling at them. They’re 4 and 7 for reference. Please constructive responses only. Thank you!

I’ve been helping couples navigate the challenges of infertility for over 20 years now. Recently, I’ve noticed more couples feeling apprehensive to continue treatment because they are worried about potential repercussions if they miscarry during the IVF process. Honestly, I’m not sure how to reassure them because I also feel afraid, but I just want to continue supporting these wonderful couples & families. I would be heartbroken if they ended up suffering more because of their treatments. I’m just feeling so conflicted & sad today after meeting with a couple who decided to postpone treatment.

Is Philadelphia safe for Muslim non immigrant and salary of 95 K enough for living with a family of 2 kids? Please give your suggestions. I need to decide on whether to choose this option or not

My gf and I are having a big discussion and I would love to get your thoughts on this. It’s about how much we keep in touch and communicate when I’m on the road. She needs to hear from me everyday multiple times and if I don’t answer her texts within a few hours, she can get quite controlling (text over and over again, also on my work phone, asks what I am doing and gets upset). I am not used to that and have the trust if she doesn’t text back, that it’s for good reasons, busy at work…. (Ctd)

Moved to the DC area about two years ago and have yet to establish myself friendwise. I usually tag along with my partner to all of his events as I’m traveling 5 days a week and have no forum. Any...

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

Why do we always tell people “Be the best version of yourself before starting a relationship?”
I feel this is wrong…first, if you’re someone who constantly wants to be better, this doesn’t work. Also, what happens when you’re going through things and you’re not the best version? What happens is…the going gets tough and then one person leaves the other.

Does anyone know any ISB couples?
(Preferably those who have graduated in 2017 or before)
Please DM.

I know this is a different kind of heartbreak, but I just had to make the difficult decision to go no contact with my parents after years of toxic and narcissistic behavior. It’s a weird feeling of immense sadness but also freedom. Can anyone else relate?

Attending a conference with a lot of VCs and accelerators, looking to set up some coffee chats to build relationships - what are some smart questions to ask?

Any other lonely social workers in here? I mean a lot to some of the people on my caseload but that's about it. Don't have any family near me and it's hard to make friends with non-SW's mostly just because I'm too tired after work to want to do much. Do you spend most of your time alone or is your social time self care for you? Just feel like I don't have a support system!

Does anyone else have a bf/husband that still plays video games. My bf still plays and it’s not once in a while but like continuously. After work we will eat dinner and then he will play till 12-1am. On the weekends it’s an all day thing. We have a new puppy and while he does help when he’s on video games it’s just so toxic. Same with cleaning up so I take on more roles. It’s like a bad habit that doesn’t stop. I have talked to him but he just doesn’t understand

I just found out that a man I dated a few years ago died last week and I’m struggling with how to feel about it and how to process it. He did some shitty things to me that kind of messed me up: he ghosted me after love bombing me and I was just so hurt at the time. But he apologized and asked for forgiveness about a year ago so I think he turned out to be a better man. Not sure why I’m posting here but I don’t really have anyone to talk to about it. It’s a weird situation.

Do you ever feel like you’re just never going to experience real love or be that ‘special someone’ for somebody? I sometimes feel like I am defective in some way, because despite being in my early 30s, I have never felt particularly special to any guy I have been with- it’s always felt like I am the space filler until they meet the right person

Has anyone successfully gotten back together with an ex? Is it just doomed to fail again (in my case for a 3rd time), or do you have a success story to share?

Hello everyone,
I’m supporting a mom who had a 2 month supply of breast milk in her freezer but the freezer stopped working at some point on Thursday after 5pm. I believe she shouldn’t re-freeze the milk at this point. She said the milk is cool but not frozen anymore. Do you have any suggestions please? Can she re-freeze it?

Asking for a friend: searching for a role in a non-profit around Climate Change Policy or Community related. 4 YOE

Hello Fishes,

Please refer me for the below job ID in Wipro,

Job ID: 2824301

Thanks for the help.!

Hi Fishes, Any reference would be appreciated. Looking for a job change, YOE: 5 years Skills: COBOL, JCL, DB2, IMS DB, File-Aid, CA7.
IBM CGI Bank of America Valeo Sopra Steria Societe Generale HCL Technologies Hexaware Technologies Capgemini Tech Mahindra Infosys Accenture Mindtree DXC Technology

How many IT companies are ending WFH?
PS- walmart is asking to come to ofc for sprint ceremonies

Thinking about going to standing desk, who has them and what are your thoughts?

DM for TCS refferal

*Judge after instructing several attorneys suit and tie are required even for zoom hearings*

“Wow is there a shortage of ties going on or what”

Hey can someone with better economics credentials than me explain how the coming recession isn't just "companies made bank and then used the spectre of a recession to avoid sharing those gains with employees and so now everyone's wages are going to fall compared to the jacked up cost of goods, which will cause a recession"

Because the "we've posted record profits but can't give you a raise bc a recession is coming" Sure makes it seem like that.

Hi guys, what are the benefits for PLSql developer and salary provided by Amex for 9years of experience.

Today I got call for a position. Please suggest

How is the E3 band - Technical specialist for 11 years experience.

what is the correct band for this year of experience in HCLTech

Hi fishes, does anyone have references for job opening for a person with 6 years of experience in retail banking, credit and treasury in SBI.

Looking to switch field from banking to banking technology or product. Any leads will be helpful.

Hi guys, I am planning to switch within Kolkata. I work as a Process Associate at PTP Accounts Payable domain. I have complete process end to end knowledge with a year experience. I worked on SAP ERP, Salesforce AP Cora and Savvion. I am from finance background. I have done my Bachelor's on Commerce with Honours from CU. My Notice Period is of 30 days.

Can you guys help me out here please?

I am eyeing for PwC EY Deloitte KPMG Accenture Cognizant Capgemini Tata Consultancy Infosys and others.

The worst part about the slower days is seeing the stuff in the future that’s going to become an avalanche of heavier days 😬

Hi guys,
This question is to those who resigned recently.

Is it mandatory to submit investment proof( Form C) while leaving LTI?
I have one more month to exit and I see they have enabled window for Clearance and Form C.

Please let me know if anyone have idea. Larsen & Toubro Infotech

What does VC portfolio operations do? What are some example projects or initiatives that they work on for startups? I am getting recruiter interest with this title but I am not sure how to wrap my head around it. Thank you.

Is it good to change from FPNA profile to RTR

He is a 10 but he never cleans his air fryer, and change aluminium foil once a week

My ex cheated on me. We dated for 2 years . I been suffering from bad panic attacks since the break up . Any suggestions on healing ? (No I will not hook up with randos )

I am long distance with my boyfriend and am feeling really unsettled about our relationship. We’ve been together 9 months, and long distance for 4/ 9. I love him and am lonely while distanced, but super happy with our relationship. I’m unsettled about the future and if we will be happy together in the future. I do not want to move to where he is located and he does not want to move here. He definitely wants kids, and I’m younger and more unsure. He’s a suburbs guy, and I want lavish city life.

Every time there’s a little conflict I can’t handle it. How do I overcome this and get better at addressing it?

Bf said on video he made his decision to breakup, and asked to meet on Sunday to talk in person. If he’s already decided, what’s the point of meeting up and break up one more time? (He said we have very different values. He thinks I look for stability, quality time, family, have a place, someone to come home to when he wants to travel and build businesses. He feels like the relationship is not letting him do what he wants to do at max capacity because of resistance he feels from me)

My gf and I are having a big discussion and I would love to get your thoughts on this. It’s about how much we keep in touch and communicate when I’m on the road. She needs to hear from me everyday multiple times and if I don’t answer her texts within a few hours, she can get quite controlling (text over and over again, also on my work phone, asks what I am doing and gets upset). I am not used to that and have the trust if she doesn’t text back, that it’s for good reasons, busy at work…. (Ctd)

What are some examples of healthy vs. unhealthy doubts in a relationship?

New gf said she’s addicted to me. What does it mean?

Do you ever feel like you’re just never going to experience real love or be that ‘special someone’ for somebody? I sometimes feel like I am defective in some way, because despite being in my early 30s, I have never felt particularly special to any guy I have been with- it’s always felt like I am the space filler until they meet the right person

For the people in relationships/marriage in which the woman is making significantly more than the man, how have you fared so far? Would like to know your thoughts

Why do women get judged for their clothes?

AITA? If my SO of 1 year wants to get a dog, do I get an opinion? We don’t live together

My now ex-boyfriend of almost 5 years and I broke up a few weeks ago, and over time I’ve realized some of the bad habits that I had that really heavily contributed to the fall out of our relationship

3 weeks after me and the girl I was seeing ended things, she posts a pic from the wedding she had invited me to, with a new guy captioned “Babe”. Trust your gut folks, it’s always right.

I (33M) got booted from Bumble for "promoting social media". I do not even have social media and I can't stand seeing Instagram or TikTok in a girl's bio - it's an instant turn off - so why would I do it?

Anyone have experience fighting a ban? Bumble was really the only app I liked.