I need advice ...

So I gave my friends my password to this course that cost me like 4K & my other friend was telling me I should have charged them for it since they’ll be benefiting from it.

I changed my password the next day and now a couple months later my friend is asking what happened to it.

I feel guilty but also feel like I should have asked for $ to give them access.

Should I tell her I changed my mind and charge her? Tell a white lie..or just give it to her for free?

I am jealous of one of my friends who was handed jobs post college, got on lucky projects where she barely works. Makes almost double me without doing anything - she spends money like it’s nothing. How do I stop caring about this

Has anyone cheated on their partner, felt horrible from the guilt, confessed to them and then managed to still save the relationship? Or is cheating something no one gets over ever?

Is a post-PhD gap year to travel and be reminded of what life is like a bad idea?

My wife is pregnant with our second child. She has a good job and health insurance. I went out on my own doing criminal defense so I could help with our first child. Our daughter has been sick a lot. I don’t make as much as wife. Now with second one the cost of daycare will double. Is crazy to run the numbers and think Maybe I shoul be stay home dad? I don’t want give up all the years I have spent on being lawyer. Is there an area of law I could work at nights, weekends, one day a week?

Anyone here regrets not working in Indian govt sector 9 to 5 life?! I see my parents and older siblings and their friends and they all seem to be enjoying life more than I.

How do you make friends in this stupid city? I am a 22 yo female that has been working for almost a year. I had so many friends in college. I feel like everyone has weekend plans but me.

How do people decide or take this big decision of spending the rest of life with someone by just meeting them few times in arrange marriage setup. Where parents are involved and which makes things so complicated as more people of other generation have different thinking and mindset. People spend years in relationship the. Breakup then get over it and then again go in another relationship for years and finally marry someone who they barely know. (Cont. In comment)

Divorce or not? Loveless marriage, but love our 2 children and enjoying being close to them. Seeing my brother struggle with joint custody and think this is not for me. Too lazy/busy to rock the boat.

I split with my BF a year ago (his decision) after four years together (off and on). In your opinion, should all ties be cut? I’m struggling to tell him to stop contacting me.

The person I’m seeing has been responding to my texts days later (only a recent development) and it’s making me anxious. They have been busy the past two weeks with PhD exams and their last message was them planning when they could see me again (in a really flirty way too), so logically I know the delay is not a sign of disinterest. But I have an anxious attachment style (if that’s not obvious) and my therapist is on leave right now, so I’m struggling. Do any of you have any advice?

Need gift ideas that one can only buy in California. I am making a trip to CA first time after I got into a serious relationship, Bf won’t be able to come along for a reason. I want to get him something memorable. He is into fitness and health. All ideas welcome , no $ limit

Should I take my girlfriend back after she drunkenly kissed a random guy at a bar?
We were at a bar with friends and I left the bar because I was ready to go home. She stayed with friends and I later found out that she kissed a random guy and her friend had to break it up. We are 3 months in and I feel betrayed. She has assured to me that it was not cheating and just a mistake. She loves me and wants to stay together and swore to do better. I’m torn because I feel like all trust is gone.

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I think since I became a real estate agent my friends are avoiding me... it's like they think I see them as "prospects" rather than my pals. Hard to get out of salesman mode at the end of the day though.

I have a grandparent who is a toxic narcissist. He is my only living grandparent. I will be inviting all aunts and uncles to our wedding. However, after watching my grandparent make my sister's wedding completely about him and try to get involved, although my sister did not want that, I do not want to invite him. Any advice?

How do I know if my spouse is being emotionally abusive and a bully? Everytime they can, for any mistake, they unload on me. I’m about to explode.

Been actively applying to jobs with no bites. Feeling pretty disheartened because really want to relocate closer to family. Going to keep trudging!

What made you realize that your SO was someone you saw forever with?

How soon after marriage do guys start demanding kids? Asking for a friend

So I need a commercial mortgage/ loan - any idea on how I should go about that. I got approved by a broker but I don’t want to pay the 7% broker fee

I’m an industry senior, manager is retiring in 2 months & new tax director is joining this week. Have been at company for 15 months. Considering talking to HR & new director for a plan to grow my career at this company; company is growing & likely we will need 2 more ppl at associate/senior levels (we have 1 associate). What is a realistic time frame to set for promotion to manager & what goals should I be setting? Company is tiered partnership, acquiring new businesses & operates multi-state.

Any 7+ years exp person in AWS/Data Engineering? We have an opening with handsome pay.
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What should I expect (salary, signing, bonus) as a potential experienced hire joining PWC’s transaction services as a senior associate in a high COL city?

Have a first interview for an associate solution architect role next week. Should be a technical interview, as i saw the interviewer is another solution architect. Any tips on how I should prepare for this?

Offbeat question but does anyone know of a good dermatologist in Bangalore?

My coworker keeps leering at me when he thinks I'm not looking. How long do I wait before I tell HR?

Anyone willing to help with referrals for the RPM/APM programs for Lyft, LinkedIn, Salesforce, Uber, Google, Microsoft?

How's the TBWA office in New York? Any insiders wanna spill some deets? 👍🏽

Hi guys,

Is there a way to retrieve the offer letter from workday portal. My offer was released today and after e-signing it, I submitted my offer without downloading it. And now although my workday portal shows as offer accepted, the offer letter is no longer visible in the portal.

How do you deal with your “mentor” being threatened by your performance and gatekeeping information from you? Then turning around and giving you shit for not knowing things… but they don’t tell you anything and there is no way for you to know. My learning and development is being hindered and I’ve felt this for a long time, but coworker just confirmed this is the case. Now that I know I’m not “crazy” for thinking this, how should I approach this?

Curious how typical it is to feel extreme imposter syndrome as a 1st year...I’m a few weeks in at a biglaw firm and for the first time in my life I feel like everyone else is running laps around me...I’m not getting a lot of work but I’m second-guessing myself on nearly everything I do...is this normal?

Is the UWS around 80th St safe? Or is it best to stay below a certain street?

How much weight do you give to a Company’s former/current employee reviews on Glassdoor? I have a great opportunity and interview lined up, but the reviews consistently refer to “toxic work environment” and “POC beware”

How do you tackle ignorant managers and favoritism in the team ?

I got laid off because of covid and need to discuss the severance package with my ceo tomorrow. Company offers 6 months, I want more as it probably will take much longer to find a new job.
Any tips for a conversation like this? I’m normally a strong person related to my work but feel very uncomfortable and uncertain right now. He is a good talker and I’m afraid he will walk all over me.

Hello to anyone who joins!

Does anybody else apply for jobs on Indeed and refuse to take those accounting tests some employers require? I look at it this way - I have a CPA, MBA and 20+ years experience. If that doesn’t prove I know my sh@t, then feel free to hire someone else.

First week back in the office after vacation and I am ready for another one. I don’t know how it is already January 2018! Anyone feel the same?

i’m in a pickle

i have a job where the work is okay, but i cannot stand my coworkers. there’s been so much undermining and rudeness that, even though we’re in a slower slow time, i have so much built up resentment i still don’t like my job.

i also don’t like the permanently remote nature of the job (wasn’t remote when i joined), and feel like im getting pigeon-held into low value work (compliance, provision, fixed assets etc.)

am i reacting too emotionally for wanting to leave?

Have been at EY for a few years hired from campus, thinking about looking for another job, I don't want anyone at EY that I am looking, what do I do for references?

How long does the firm give a first year staff before they consider firing her for performance?

So I've heard this a few times but its still hard for me to keep it straight. What makes up the gross margin vs net margin? If it's just your salary and how much they pay for you, should you be (cont)

I am recently received an invite for a meeting with a partner and a HR person which means I am either going to be laidoff or put on a reduced schedule (60% time for 60% pay). I would rather being laidoff since I don’t want to still work 100% with 60% pay. How would I frame it if they put me on the reduced schedule? I don’t want to say “you have to fire me” since it might be counted as resignation and I won’t receive the severance package.

Sometimes I go in stalls to pee so I can check my phone at the same time without being judged

I’m 4.5 years in at a regional firm. Every busy season seems to be worse than the prior and I have such an awful mood about PA/accounting...lately been struggling to even work 40 hours. When my mood is decent my job is great and I crush it, but it’s bad most of the time so I feel miserable. I can’t seem to get myself to leave though. Anyone else experience this? Any tips for making this more sustainable and keeping myself in a decent mood? I’m generally a happy guy outside of work. 🤷🏻‍♂️