I need help! I dated a girl for the first time and she ghosted me for 2 weeks and now she texted me saying oh I’m sorry I was so busy with work and classes… should I respond and tell she should have told me or just ignore her and move on. I thought dating a girl was going to be easier than dating guys haha

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Girls are not easier they’re just less violent on average

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Just chill and try again with no expectations, let things happen instead of trying to control everything.

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Ignore her and move on. If I had to guess I’d say they had multiple prospects the first time y’all were talking and the one they ‘chose’ fell through. So now they’re back to you.

You deserve someone who will prioritize you and choose you, though

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She's not that into you (sorry!) but you need to hear it to manage your expectations.

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Something might have changed for her, or she's bored, or lonely.

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You have literally nothing to lose by giving her another chance (if first date was good and you want to) - so… why not?

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Hmmm if it’s a couple dates.. then I wouldn’t TBH

“I thought dating a girl was going to be easier..” oh, honey. lol.

I think it depends on what you mean by “dated.” You went on one date? A few, several? If it was one date, and you didn’t have an established habit of talking/texting frequently before she ghosted, I’d give her another shot. If you were talking frequently and went on more than one date and she ghosted, bye Felicia. Someone in the latter situation who ghosts is not mature enough to bother with.

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I’d give it a shot. Two weeks isn’t that long tbh

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Sounds as if you’re ready to move on anyway. Let her chase you. That’s when the fun starts!

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Situation is likely she has an ex still in the picture. Tried to get back with them. They broke up again so she’s back to you. Aka messy.

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Girls are not easier at all lol, they know how to mentally screw people over 😂

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