I need serious advice, please! Am I wasting my time messaging a guy I matched with online that lives on the opposite coast? Background: we message each other at least 1-2 times everyday for the last FIVE months but never over a phone call. He actually doesn't even have my number. We message on IG. He's a full-time student and full time employee so busy guy. But am I wasting my time and emotions with this guy??

Was having a conversation with a fellow female friend which intrigued me. She is in her early 30’s, has been in relationships before but she decided that she wanted to be a virgin until she felt right (impacted by culture/upbringing). She says she feels very embarrassed about it lately while dating. I comforted her saying her sexuality is her choice and the right person with respect it. But it got me thinking, what is the truth and how can I help her better? Men please share your thoughts...?

Hi Everyone
I am planning to do a short bike ride today evening to Lonavala
Any F interested to accompany me?

Anyone looking to play back 4 blood together?

Went on a short coffee date with a person who was nice, but I just don’t think we’re compatible. What’s a kind text I can send to explain, after they said we should see each other again?

Can someone figure out how to create a virtual speed dating event? Would anyone be interested in joining?

Anyone wanna chat with me tonight, if you're bored. M/33 😄😉

Any F up for drinks / dinner tonight? I’ll share more details about myself via DM

So I met a girl on muzmatch and we’ve been talking for a little bit now. I like her a lot but often find myself leading every conversation and her questions to me are usually, “what about you?” type of deal and never something that I haven’t just asked her. It’s not like she doesn’t respond but I get the feeling that she’s not into me as much as I’m into her. Thoughts?

Any single female from Kolkata ?

Genuinely can’t tell what’s lust vs love. Only known someone for a month and enjoying my time, but I also have a strong sex drive. How do you tell?! (24F)

off-topic:
in office have you seen any girl wear nosepin?

Should I gift a guy if he’s never gifted me before?

I’m considering moving to Philly from DC at the end of the year. Ideally, I would love to move to NYC but as someone that WFH I value having a nice apartment/more space. What are the pros and cons? Is the dating pool in Philly really that small?

Where should you take someone on a first date? Not an app find or a hookup so want to do something nice. 28M

why can’t girls just be honest when giving their excuse as to why they cancel a first date last minute? better to be honest than give an obviously made up excuse

F 🐠 without a date on Valentine’s Day - want to go out tonight? Mulled wine and dinner? M30

Latest date night spots with fair number of veggie options? Looking for options in dc and nova

Hello fellow singles! Just wanted to say hi to the community & start building my ‘brand’ as PwC has taught me. Turning 30 soon (a few months away), thought of getting a head start atleast on this phase in my life.

M here, Indian, currently based out of east coast. Love reading, movies, adventure sports & long road trips (more recently gyming too).

Looking to connect with the fellow tribe here. Hit me up if I sound like someone you would be interested in connecting with.

27M here, any girl in Hyderabad

Men who are fit and have ripped bodies, does that help with getting the ladies ?

Anyone move to Miami in the last 1-2 years? what’s it like vs where you were before? Do you like it so far? How’s the dating scene if you’re BIPOC?

Curious what other underwriters are being paid. We have had a good amount of turn over lately where people are getting 20K plus more, but the people we are hiring to fill those spots are saying we pay “way” more than their previous role. Seems there is a big gap.

Any threat intelligence jobs out there? I’m just starting out in intel but have been told my writing abilities and understanding of the subject matter already make me a better analyst than most.

Hey all, any folks from Bain or BCG (especially those specializing in TMT) willing to chat? I’m a SM in TMT with 6 YOE + MBA looking to make a move. Thanks!

Hi fellow fish - I was part of the DoorDash layoffs today, and am actively searching for a new opportunity. I was recently a Senior Manager in Strategy & Operations, and have 11+ years of experience across consulting, tech, start-ups, and various sectors. Please let me know of any open roles that may be a fit, and TIA!

Anyone can do a referral @SociétéGenerale? I got an offer from another company on FIX Onboarding, but looking for better pay which looks like they might have.

Hi All,
I had salary discussion call with Cognizant HR on 6th Sep and submitted all the required docs on same day. But I haven’t received any response yet. I sent multiple emails, but no reply on that. What should I do in this case? Any suggestions please.

How does creativity help in this crisis?

Anyone thinking about getting a Marriott credit card? If so, can I refer you?

I make $153k as a staff PM. What do others in PM make?

Any west coast lesbians 29-38 want to chat?

Take time this week to reflect on all the things we are Thankful for. Including our relationship with God.

Share a retail horror story and how you resolved the issue at hand if there was a resolution.

What is the weather like in London throughout the year?

Hey Fishes,

I have got offer from VOIS. My work location would be Mantri IT Park, Pune.
Does VOIS provide cab service/shuttle service?

If someone wants to join company in NCR at 4-5YOE how much compensation should be expected from Backend profile ? What are the companies as I heard only limited options in NCR. Please help. I am looking to switch to Bangalore for some time and then returning back to NCR

Anyone ever gone through a separation with their spouse and have 3 small kids (under 6) in the equation? My spouse asked me for one tonight 🥲

I am generally uncomfortable when I’m around my mother-in-law’s husband.

While he is overall a decent guy, his anger issues, yelling at his wife for the slightest issue, and insulting nature makes me uncomfortable and triggers my own anger due to his blatant disrespect for just about everyone around him.

My mother-in-law says he’s worked on things, but it’s been 10 years of this and I’m not sure I want such behavior around my wife and our kids since we’re trying to conceive soon (cont).

Would you be upset if your SO showed up at your house without an invitation but knew you were going to be in the neighborhood?Even if you weren't expecting them, would you leave them outside knowing they were there?

Where are single men looking for single ladies these days? Tinder/hinge and other swipe apps seems to be flooded by onlyfan-ers which is fine (you do you boo) but not something i am looking for in a potential partner.

Would you invite your past hookup in your friend group to your wedding? Fiancé wants to invite this guy from her grad school friend group and they used to hook up. I am opposed because I don’t like him and he never respected me (made me feel invisible when fiancé and I first dated and is still a prick to me). Fiancé thinks it’s harsh if we just leave him out while inviting the rest of her friend group

Ex who dumped me abruptly before I planned on proposing reached out and wants to meet up 6 months later to try to get back together. I feel mostly anger towards her. Bad idea to accept and meet up

Entering 2-4 years of long distance. Been together for a year. I know she is the one for me, any tips on making it as painless as possible?

Was having a conversation with a fellow female friend which intrigued me. She is in her early 30’s, has been in relationships before but she decided that she wanted to be a virgin until she felt right (impacted by culture/upbringing). She says she feels very embarrassed about it lately while dating. I comforted her saying her sexuality is her choice and the right person with respect it. But it got me thinking, what is the truth and how can I help her better? Men please share your thoughts...?

I recently watched a video that talked about "voluntary reduction of income", which is where a person intentionally leaves their job and/or takes a lower paying job than what they qualified for in order to decrease chid support payments. I don't understand why anyone would ever do that? Can anyone explain reasoning behind this action?

Went on a short coffee date with a person who was nice, but I just don’t think we’re compatible. What’s a kind text I can send to explain, after they said we should see each other again?

Need advice and help.

I have realized I grew up in a household where my dad did not treat my mom as an equal. He belittles her, is rude and convinced his way is the only way.

It is painful to say, but some of this shows up in me and in my relationship. I am starting to catch myself, and it to me seems to be more of a reaction than anythjng that is ever intentional.

Wondering if anyone has dealt with something similar, and any success in making changes besides therapy. Cont. in comments

Gift ideas for GF dad? We have been dating a year and a half, I get along with him super well. He is dealing with some medical complications so isn’t to active at the moment but loves cooking and golfing. He is one of those guys who already has everything he needs, and they are super wealthy so I feel bad getting him any clothing or accessories knowing it wouldn’t be as nice as the things he wears, although I know he doesn’t expect anything and would genuinely appreciate anything I got him

Should I gift a guy if he’s never gifted me before?

I have a crush on my counsellor at work. She's much older but still really gracious and beautiful. Should I go for it or is this a bad idea?

My boyfriend is not the best at providing emotional support. I’m pretty sure a lot of it stems from him not being able to fully express his emotions when he was younger. Does this mean our relationship is doomed or is there anything we can do to work on this? I just want to feel supported and that he is there for me.

Need gift ideas: my partner’s parents let me stay at their beach cottage and would like to gift them something nice. They are well off, like food, and outdoors stuff. Any suggestions?

Guy I am dating for last 3 months asked me to attend Mother’s Day lunch/dinner with his whole family. I haven’t met any one of them on a 1-1. While I am somewhat comfortable with him, I am an introvert and don’t like to be around groups of people. We usually spend a weekend night together. However, after I gently said no and told him I d feel comfy to first meet his family members 1-1, he seemed to be a little aloof and left early. I like the guy a lot. We aren’t at the typical marriageable age

If someone ghosts you but you still have an article of their clothing, and they never asked for it back, should you just donate it?

My family mistreated me when I was younger, and now that I don’t live at home, they don’t call or bother to look for me, because frankly, I think they have a hard time admitting what happened - and will never apologize to me either. If I don’t call, or occasionally go see them during the holidays, we would never talk. Some of them are growing old (health-wise), and I’m scared this entire situation is just irreparable. Has anyone ever gone through anything similar? Any advice or thoughts?