I quit my job this morning, leaving for industry. When asked why I was leaving, I shared a few aspirational points about why I was going where I was going. The partner tore me down with unsolicited feedback about my performance then told me that everywhere was the opposite of the aspirational features I underscored.

Why do people do that? It’s been in my head all day.

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